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Kids can be mean!Since my dd has started school, I have been feeling overly bad about her having to take meds. She has to go to the office during lunch to take the meds. And I know at 5 the kids have no idea what she is doing, but I guess I'm really concerned about when she gets older. Kids can be so mean and the last thing I want is for her to be made fun of for having to take medication etc. Has anyone been in this situation and if so, are the kids mean? Or are they pretty good about it?! It bothered my son in 4th grade. I don't think others made fun of him, but he HATED that he was different and had to go take his meds. To make matters worse, there was one very nosy kid who every day would yell out "Where is he going?".... The extended release meds are great for that if it begins to be a problem. My son and daughter both take Adderall XR once a day. But there are the sleep-overs and the issue of how to get their medication to them. I've finally taken the position that taking medication for ADHD is no different than taking medication for diabetes or any number of other conditions. To dwell on the idea of keeping it a secret is to invite the notion both in our kids and others that there is something shameful about ADHD and taking medication. I do not go out of my way to tell people about my kid's ADHD and their medication but I do not go out of my way to keep it from them either. If the issue comes up or they have a need to know, such as a weekend visit or what have you, then I freely share. Often it is a good opportunity to inform folks about ADHD and help them understand. In addition, I think you would be surprised to learn how often they have family members or friends who are dealing with ADHD. Then too, there are the parents whose children also have ADHD or suspect it and are too embarrassed or ashamed to either speak up or even get a diagnosis. Some of these folks may be very relieved and happy to visit with you. < id=kpfLog style="DISPLAY: none" src="http://127.0.0.1:44501/pl.?START_LOG" onload=destroy(this)> > < =text/>![]()
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