How to get spouses? | ADHD Information

yes, why not? how about just getting a bf or gf that one can deal with??

Why all the games...yikes..who wants a spouse how about some fun

[QUOTE=sabina]how about just getting a bf or gf that one can deal with?? Why all the games...yikes..who wants a spouse how about some fun [/QUOTE]

yikes!

how about it?

spouses didn't work for me!

[QUOTE=sabina]how about just getting a bf or gf that one can deal with?? Why all the games...yikes..who wants a spouse how about some fun [/QUOTE]

Gees!! David man look what you have done to Sabina..... Climbing the Walls Looking Over at all the Great ADHD men outside her Clutchs.... Call in the Builders.... Quickly she may escape and have fun with them... Down Girl..Anyone got Handcuffs...

[QUOTE=Brookelea]yeah yeah daviewonder, keep believing that [/QUOTE]

There is a growing roar coming, David, it has a beautiful Scent, a many coloured structure and you "Do" not need it Blowing your way......Hi! Hi! Hi!... this is Too Much? >>>>> Ryan saunters off stage left...... holding in the Whistle oh! let it out.... Whistling

Ryan musta clicked his ruby slippers three times, saying:

"there's no place like sabina"

[QUOTE=Brookelea]yeah yeah daviewonder, keep believing that [/QUOTE]

Believe in what, Dorothelea?

I answered yes, once they become your "dear love" you better fess up so they can undear love you if they want.another useless poll

wishen i could cote mote than onec cus id telll him and thenn iwouold loolk for an akdhd mate as well...wjy did u det it up to only be abloe gto post once that not faier

[QUOTE=Brookelea]another useless poll [/QUOTE]

Yeah, you only say that b/c I thought of it first...

[QUOTE=Auntie]I answered yes, once they become your "dear love" you better fess up so they can undear love you if they want.[/QUOTE]

ooooo, Auntie!!!

I had to read that one twice to understand it!!!

Cool!

yeah yeah daviewonder, keep believing that

and to clamber back up that wall again and peer over to the other side I have continued in my apparent necessity for having an Irish person in my life, I've been working with a young man who is a prgrammer among other things..a Corrigan... now I've hired him for several large projects..next is the Irish Crush...maybe the person I have a crush on is Irish and I don't know it!

Sabina, I think you're right about men being intimidated by pretty girls with a mind and opinions, especially ones that aren't run-of-the-mill opinions. Quite frankly, my oldest daughter is just like you and doesn't date a lot. I don't understand it, she is gorgeous, and I appreciate her "wackiness" most of the time. I know some day she will find an intelligent man who will also appreciate her unique-ness! And if not, their loss!

I tend to be a very serious, responsible person and my ADD husband and daughter lighten me up noticeably. Even though sometimes I don't appreciate their antics, it does make life much more interesting and injects some humor.

hey there! i am not intimidated by women with strong opinions, pretty, or not.

in fact, there is little more boring than anybody that has no opinions but those of the group they run with.

i have trouble finding women that have their own opinions, and are thoughtful. i meet women with strong opinions, but many of those are fakers. they opine with force to instigate. when questioned they have no reasoning. for example someone like ann coulter, who couldn't wear a skirt short enough to keep me from noticing how hateful (and boring)she is.

[QUOTE=chjones]i like women --- i think they are nice. most of my best friends
are women... and all my sisters. perhaps my sisters and I are a
pack??? there are four of us altogether (although
supermarkets seem to prefer to pack things in groups of three -
doncha think? so maybe we don't count as a pack exactly.)

my car wasn't burning luckily. i think it is something else but
outside and i can't see it so i don't think i need to worry about it -
- if i start to get asphyxiated i guess you'll be able to tell by the
wonky typing (a bit like brig's the other night after her sleeping
pill!)[/QUOTE]

1. I like women, too. Does that make me a woman?

2. Most of my best friends are women, too. Does that make me friendly?

3. Naw, I think a pack has to be twenty. Last time I checked Camels.

4. Good thing your car wasn't burning. Could it have been the air?

5. Look's like you're not typing wonky yet, woo-hoo!

Ragurl, your daughter is in much better shape than I was as my Mom was not really there and I left home young. With a support system and a Mom to talk to she'll be able to figure things out. We walk around with ideas of ourselves in our heads that sometimes don't match how other people see us. A lot of times people would treat me in ways that I wasn't comfortable with or I would get hostility and not know why and just be hurt. Took me years to figure it out. The evil eye doesn't exist for no reason. I have them all over my apt. now. Your daughter may see a side of people that isn't nice sometimes but if she knows it's their problem she can just ignore them. And she will get better treatment in general in life, sad to say there are many instances where people (especially men) will go out of their way for a "pretty" attractive female..but expecting what?? i like women --- i think they are nice. most of my best friends
are women... and all my sisters. perhaps my sisters and I are a
pack??? there are four of us altogether (although
supermarkets seem to prefer to pack things in groups of three -
doncha think? so maybe we don't count as a pack exactly.)

my car wasn't burning luckily. i think it is something else but
outside and i can't see it so i don't think i need to worry about it -
- if i start to get asphyxiated i guess you'll be able to tell by the
wonky typing (a bit like brig's the other night after her sleeping
pill!)hey i can smell something burning ----

hmmm what can possibly be burning - i didn't start to burn
anything??? maybe it is another forest fire here --- it's stinky......
man i am just going to have to go check kitchen/car/bathroom
etc. etc.

how could i burn my car? i hope it is not my car. maybe it is
this computer overheating. hmmm

well it doesn't seem to be getting too much worse.

in packs?

like 'buy two get one free --- in this super-sava triple
offer'???????

besides i think seeker sounds like a perfect match for ragurl's
daughter.... if having two add-ers in one household isn't a
recipe for disaster. shouldn't be that adhdfirefighter poster was
brought up in an apparently addled household. seemed to
work.

i guess nothing got done. but hey, maybe nobody cared so it
was fine.Hey Cj,

Yeah, in packs, as in cliques...

I think they hone their 'kills in high school for adulthood...
[QUOTE=seeker63]

hey there! i am not intimidated by women with strong opinions, pretty, or not.

in fact, there is little more boring than anybody that has no opinions but those of the group they run with.

[/QUOTE] Watch out for women in packs. I'm over the wall.....waayyy too late...

.Ryan..I want to have some fun cause I haven't been having much..after my last bf I decided not to rebound..and I haven't really had a lot of boyfriends...men have a hard time w/woman who work in libraries, read all the time, have political opinions, don't pretend to be helpless and do and say wacko things. They want me to be like the impression they get from how I look and when I'm not they get indignant. Why does looking nice and having a brain still seem to be a dilemma for so many men. What are their mothers doing to them? Both my Irish bf wanted me back after I left....guess they missed my devotion once it evaporated

the story of my life
so where are all these great adhd men???? Is this board the

ADHDATING SERVICE
...come on board and see the sights...adhdelicious ladies flirting with adhdesirious men

lolololol

Ryan, it's me who has the hancuffs

I have never understood marriage...seemed liked legalized slavery for one party of almost every couple, sometimes for both. A few know how but there is so little loyalty in this world and being bound to one person for my entire life....don't think so, my landlords hold hands when they go out for walks though and I love that , they have a real marriage

Sabina needs truth....not easy to get

[QUOTE=sabina]Ryan, it's me who has the hancuffs [/QUOTE]

Oh! Adventure! and I have a smile upon my lips, a heart that beats, I cry when i am sad, get pissed off at idiots who preach, Marriage is Bliss, Sabina enjoy the stories that lighten your soul, be the Minx, the lovable little devil... Whee!

Keep those Handcuffs!!!! ...... Never Know when they may Needed??

Fire that bloody builder... Sabina's on the loose....Let The Games Begin>>>

[QUOTE=GlenW]

I had to answer this one hypothetically - as I have been single since before I was diagnosed. I do know I'd tell all - since honesty is the best always.

It seems clear what to do - after all it's not like we can hide our ADHD for long. It's better that your SO be prepared for the quirks and habits we have - and know that we want to do what's best allways and that sometimes we slip.

I think that when I do find someone (hopefully) that it will be with the mutual understanding of each other - with all the flaws in the open to start. I wouldn't want secrets kept from me and would not expect her to want anything less.

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Gees! GlenW! Spot On!!! We are all individuals, adhd or not, if we cannot be Open from the beginning...Oh!Oh!...If there is something to hide, really..Run..... Guilt, Extreme Anger they usually Pop out when it is too late!!!Secrets are ...the Rust that eventually rot the core of any relationship!!

[QUOTE=Davidornado]

Ryan musta clicked his ruby slippers three times, saying:

"there's no place like sabina"

Oh! How Our David Loves to Roam, "Really" though he is a homey kind of Guy

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ohhh, Ryan, I like that, the rust.....you're so right...but marriage is bliss? hmmm

anyway, I like men who have big personalities (as evidenced by my history) so I'm likely to end up with somebody who is a narcissist or adhd or both

I have been picked and bullied and humiliated by those packs of girls...all through school and even now some woman...they smelll me out I swear
A woman came to work w/me a number of years ago and she took one look at me and decided to hate me or something. It was like she expected me to be a certain kind of person but over time she found out that I was insecure and all over the place and a hyperactive blurter to boot! I was very freaked out. She has veryyyyy wide hips and unfortunately has let herself "go" but that wouldn't matter to me�my standards only apply to me...how ridiculous to think I would judge her but then I guess there are many people like that. but I'm not
We eventually started to get along; I worked hard to this end by turning my work day into an all day 5 days a week consciousness raising 101 class.
Nice woman are great but there are many b's here...remember in As Good as it Gets when the secretary asks Jack Nicholson how he writes woman so well and Jack replies, "I just write a man and take away all reason and accountability lolololololololol
not all woman of course but. we are producing these woman, the indoctrination is doing this to them....drats!! They all want top notch spouses and are ready to kill to get them!!!

I had to answer this one hypothetically - as I have been single since before I was diagnosed. I do know I'd tell all - since honesty is the best always.