Problem with teacher, this time DD
born cute and innocent...
they turn 9 and become minature divas that believe that the world is theirs and theirs alone...
my dd used to have similar problems.. it was horrendous... no doubt she will have those problems again in the future..
Well and i forgot to add that the teacher is not the only problem,,,it's her friend too she teases her, calls her names, and DD sticks up for herself and she's the one who gets into trouble. She doesn't get it, and we've taked about satying away from this girl. I would love to switch schools.... Brookelea, i don't know for sure if she is,,,,but my guess would be that she is being catty. She does that to me so maybe she does it to the teacher. It just feels like every little thing she does is getting picked apart, oh and she is bold and when somebody hits her she will fight back and that happened when she was sticking up for her friend. The teacher didn't like that. i have more problems with female students than male ones..
and its the slight comments, the body language, the facial gestures..
i try to explain to students that it is better for all if they stay out of discussions between the teacher and other students.. any issue will be resolved quicker and there will be no backlash.. unfortunately teachers do take it personally and hold grudges..
your daughter will have to learn how to deal with her teachers and not to try to upset the balance.. its a hard lesson and at times very unjust but unfortunately thats life...
when she begins to chill out a bit, her relationship with her teacher will most likely improve..
at school many students come and whinge to me about other teachers.. i advise them to change their behaviour and body language with the teacher.. they initially resent it but quickly figure out that it favours them greatly.. the teacher does change towards them and everything becomes rosy...
most teachers only want to be respected.. show them some respect and they will bend over backwards..
Redhead, I have a son who is now 28, but was just like your daughter. Is she maybe gifted? My son would finish his work before all his friends then start talking to his friends who had more trouble completing their work. I tried to tell the teachers to give him more work. He didn't mind. I told them to get him to help others, because that also interested him. Some took up my suggestions and some didn't. It was a battle all the way through school with this gifted child. He was not exactly a behavior problem, but he annoyed his teachers because of being a chatterbox once he finished his work.
is your dd by any chance being 'catty' to the teacher?? rolling
her eyes, body language, chatting whilst the teacher is trying to talk??I guess the teacher is getting mad as well, she says she notices the disrespect in class as well with my dd and the other girls, she said they don't know how to be friends with eachother.......exactly my point i'm tired of my kid getting into trouble because she sticks up for herself.
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