Hi I am looking for some advice and how to make up a toddler routine...I know I sound really dumb but I am not the best at this kind of thing....So I was hoping somoene could help me out.

We wake up around 7

nap time is 12 and bed time is 8

if anyone could help me out with what to do with the spare times that would be great and so helpful

my son is 2 1/2 and my daughter is 14 momnths.. thanks so much

I think it's soooo hard to raise babies/toddlers, I'm assuming you're a stay at home mom?  My kids are 3 and 2 and I might be able to help you out, if you reply to this message I will send you my personal email and we can email or we can talk if you'd like! 

I have a son who is now 8 yo and it is a miracle that I am still sane today! I tell you that it wasn't easy getting to where I am now with my son through the years. Luckily we have found a Dr. that could finally give us an answer to our troubles and with a diagnosis with the medication to start. I didn't know that they don't like to diagnose any child until they are in school with ADHD! If I even had a clue to what was going wrong in my son's mind, I would have requested some help earlier! I now have 3 boys and after my first son was born, I thought that was all normal! Boy was I a nieve (not sure if spelled right) girl! When my second son was born, who was very quiet compared to the first, I thought something was wrong with him!!! He had to have some sort of quiet disease. Then my third boy! (Am I going to ever have a girl?!) But now I find myself going insane with the only one in the house who cleans (not even the hubby) and struggles with a part-time job with nightly routine with homework and dinner and cleaning and whatever else I can fit into the nightly routine before I have to go and pick up my hubby from work. Then the next day starts all over again. On the weekends, I don't work but it's all the same... clean, cook, clean, cook, clean, scream, scream, scream, cry... wait to pick up hubby... sleep (finally!!!). Sounds like fun!

Christine Bishop