man...ure ex sounds exactly like me, i'm 22 and i still act like a kid..too much like a kid. i can't help it sometimes..i don't like being too serious unless i really want to be. sometimes i notice the people i date get annoyed how i act so ditzy all the time, but to tell u the truth i really don't care anymore, i do have adhd, and i am a hyperass person, i would rather be with someone who totally accept me for me and i wouldn't chang my personality and life and revolve it around that person, thats the worst feeling in the world if u have to do that.
i mean..i know i have some negative qualities because of my adhd, like i can be so damn impatient sometimes and impulsive and talk bout the same sh*t over and over and sometimes exaggarate things like ure ex girlfriend did. but overall i'm a good person with a good heart, and fun to be around, so if the dude don't like me then..... go and find someone else then...but most people that i kick it with always come back to me...and it's not that i was all that great in bed or anything..it just that i'm a fun person to be around, and they knew i was genuinely a good person in the end, even wit my flaws, and trust me u could probably end up finding worse women out there ....than to be with someone who has adhd
There is a difference between being an adult and being a grown-up.
I act like an adult (ecpecially when appropriate and/or necessary).
But I REFUSE to grow-up.
The girl... She is a different story. I am reading other issues in her life different from an ADD/HDer. My instincts tell me her issues go WAYYYYYYYY back to her early childhood.
My initial advice to you....
Take two long steps back.
Turn around.
And leave skid-marks along with the smell of your burning shoe rubber.
But thats just me.
In addition to my last post....
I AM NOT a brat
I"m NOT, I'm NOT, I'm NOT . (Please add a foot stomp with each "NOT").
ZORG38657.7092013889Lots of people are like this I have met. People look away from home for what needs are not met at home. My guess this is why some marry young also cause they think it's real love. Who no's . Love, parenting, Married life have no instuction manuels.
pastmember/Bren38657.72625so are all these things caused by her ADHD? or do you think it is much much deeper than this? Adhd can cause lots of bad stuff