About 2 weeks ago I asked for wisdom regarding my marriage and how I felt about my tattoo artist. Well, I had a talk with "A" last night....He told me that I needed to find a way to communicate to my husband that things needed to change and divorce was not an option I should be entertaining at this point. He reminded me of my vows and assured me that my husband loves me evwen though he may not be good at showing it.
Now, "A" might have been saying whatever he needed to say to get himself extricated from my imaginings, but in doing so, he made me see that I was acting on impulse and not really trying.
The truth is, I came "that close" to throwing away a marriage many people would kill for so I could indulge myself in a lustful crush. I look forward to speaking to my doctor about the strange side effects Adderall has manifested in my libido, and I have already asked my husband to forgive me for treating him badly the last few weeks. Thank God he has a forgiving nature and he hugged me and said he would try harder to be more sensitive to my needs.
So...there it is: a rare breed of man: one with enough honor to resist what he could have freely and easily because it's just plain wrong to take it.
Dabonbon
WELL DONE! I am pleased, looks like you do love him after all...Thank goodness you woke up to reality. Whatever caused it, I'm glad you can see now. Good luck in your marriage.