ADD= Always Developing Disasters | ADHD Information
Why is it that the harder we try to do the things we need to do, the more disaster strikes?
I know, probably a rhetorical question. 
With me, it seems to come in cycles, just when I think I have everything accounted for, something I missed jumps up and bites me, and it isn't usually a little thing either. 
I think I can relate to what you said. I normally act on impulse rather than well planned action, then when I haven't taken care of something rush in and make a mess of things. This is something I have to fight with all the time. Is this what you are talking about? Exactly, but a lot of the time it deals with important finacial matters, and I get so secretive about things, no one else knows about the problems I am having until critical mass sets in.I know how you feel. Suddenly I'll be out off money and wondering how I did that. I can stop myself from getting overdrawn at the bank, but I really have to watch myself. Generally I don't want to tell anyone what I did due to embarrassment.
I think this comes from fear of making a decision, then my impulsivity sets in. I hope your situation is not too serious. Generally with me things work out, I just suffer from not getting done what I really wanted to. I am really watching myself now. I need to sit down and plan out how I am going to finish my Christmas shopping instead of leaving it to chance that I have got enough to cover everything. Thanks for posting this. Now maybe I'll prevent a disaster.