My Cousin Died Yesterday; So Did A Li’l I | ADHD Information

I'm so sorry David.
Want you to know that even if I don't know you, you'r in my thoughts and I feel for for you.

/Kaks

Sorry about your loss there David. It's always a tough one to go through. I've lost a lot of people in my family, friends, nieghbors. It's good to let the pain to just flow no matter what it does to ya! Cryin, weepin, whatever! Even though we're men we got to let it out!

I noticed you live in Kerman! Oh my god! I lived in Fresno most my life! Small world! I hate the central valley, no wonder your in Colo.

david i am so sorry....i wish i could say time will heal the pain but it doesn't..it will ease it but it will never heal it..your family will be in my prayer tonight..i found remember the wonderful times i have had with my loss one help some..Thank you, dear Barb.

Loss is what an ADHDer knows best.

Pain of loss and grief doesn't lessen.

Wish the world would learn this lesson.

David,

I am so sorry. I will say a prayer for you and your family.

We were the best of cousins.

Having lived with one another for 3 years, as children, teens, and adults.

I lived with him in Costa Rica.

He lived with us in Yosemite and Kerman.

He was playing tennis with his wife and suffered a massive heart attack.

At the tender age of 50.

He was an ADDer, too.

Another multimillionaire, international, success.

May he rest in peace.

He is survived by his wife, and two teenage children, his parents, sister, and several aunts, uncles, and cousins.

Roberto Figuls

1955 - 2006
You have my sympathy Dave. I know how hard it is to lose someone you are close to. The only consolation I have to offer is that you do survive and learn to live with the loss. Your memories will keep him in your heart and you will get used to him not being here.David, I was thinking about you today, and while I knew I hadn't talked to you in a while, I couldn't put my finger on why you kept coming up in my thoughts. Now I know why. I'm here for you, friend, even though I haven't been lately. You're in my thoughts, as is your family.

Heidi
Just wanted to say that you and your family will be in my thoughts-

So sorry to have learned of your loss, May he rest in peace knowing that you have always cherished him in life, and also blessed for having such a good friend and family member. REmember him well and fondly, and my condolences to you and your family. Parting is always a sorrow, but one great day we will all be together. Your friend Dan

David, I am sorry for your loss. We lost a dear friend over Christmas. She was an incredible athlete all of her life, but she died of a sudden heart attack at the young age of 54. We are still in shock.

David --

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. (((((((hugs)))))))

~ Bonnie

I wanted to add my condolences also.

I am so sorry for your loss, words are never enough to truly comfort those that have lost a loved one, but know my prayers are with you.

Sherry

David, I hope all is well. We are all thinking about you.My prayers are with you.

Dave, take a deep breath. I have something for you...

AFTER I'M GONE

The sun is setting in the west,
the colors fill the sky.
The birds are singing in the trees,
the day is passing by.

The clouds are drifting in the dark,
revealing shape and form.
The stars are waiting patiently,
for the passing of the storm.

As lightning slashes thru the air,
with thunder, close behind.
You lay asleep in a warm, safe bed
and I lay at rest in mine.

Tomorrow, when the morning sun
sheds light upon your face,
Think of times we shared together
just, gazing into space.

We laughed at love and big, scary things.
Pretending not to wonder.
Then, broke our hearts so many times,
our feelings roared, like thunder.

With bright ideas to light the way,
we cherished every breath.
And vowed to never separate,
until one of us met death.

My day has passed and while I'm gone,
don't lose yourself in weeping.
For you must bring our dreams to life,
as I continue sleeping.

Enjoy the tears while you're alive,
because it's good for you.
To help refresh the memory
of the things we used to do.

Do you recall the times apart,
when we were little kids?
I knew you'd see my face again,
and of course, you always did.

Remember us, like we were young...
Our laughter was the best!
I'll see you again, in a wink of an eye,
when it's time for you to rest!

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I wrote this back in '85.

My best friend died, one year later.

Now, I live for two.

"Rock on... move my soul."

Oh David--sending hugs to you. No words can be of comfort at times like these, but we are thinking of you.

David - my condolences to you and your family.

Just remember that death is a part of life - not to be feared or anticipated but to be accepted and understood. The people we love and lose are alive as long as we are - and remember them.

To the ancient egyptians the only true death was to be forgotten. To kill someone you destroyed all memories of them. Isn't that how life should be - to remember all the good in a life?

Your cousin will be missed - but focus on the happy times and you'll never be truly without the company of a missed friend and family member.

I wish you well friend.

Dear Everyone,

I am deeply impressed by your sympathies and condolences. I want to thank you all sincerely for your thoughts and prayers.

I still grieve, and have shed water for him. My concerns are for his wife, and children. They continue to suffer greatly. For those of you who do, please remember them in your prayers.

David

I can relate I lost my cousin who grew up with us while pregnant with our son. Remember the good times. How a bout a scholarship fund in their name? I have always wanted this for our cousin. I just no nothing about how to go about it. I want for kids with disabilities only who can't get Govt. help. who really need it.