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Julie, Can you go in and volunteer in his room or just observe? If he had a rep as a "problem child" last year, his teacher may be reacting to what she expects to see. It is up to her to discipline and set limits that the kids can clearly follow.

The first few days are learning days as far as what is expected also. My son told me last year that the hardest part of school (in the first couple of weeks) was learning all the new rules the new teacher had.

I wouldn't panic yet. If you see a major change at home, then he will probably adjust. You should have a talk with the teacher about what she expects and what types of problems you want to be notified of and which she should handle. Also talk to your son to get his thoughts on how the day went every day. If he feels picked on or overwhelmed, then you need to talk to the teacher and possibly some of the kids in his room for their view. If he thinks everything is great but the teacher is reporting problems, again you need to investigate.

Welcome!

Starting school is a big change.  It will take alittle while before all the routines are set -up and your son will soon know all the rules.   What happens at school when he gets in trouble ?  Loss of recess ?

If things don't change soon, I'd go in and talk with the teacher and see what's up?

Last year after what seemed like an endless stretch of bad days, I asked the teacher if my son did anything good during the day? She said yes of course he does. So TELL him that.  There has to be something positive so that he doesn't get stuck in all the negitive behaviour. They started a sticker program, that was divided up into sections  9-11   11- 1   1-3 and for each time frame that when okay with no difficulties my son would get a stamp.  As the school year went on the time frames got longer  and soon he was making it all day    Of course there were days that  there were problems, but that is like most kids. This is just my opinion.

Hang in there 

As if kindergarten and first grade were not bad enough, my 7 year old son was diagnosed with ADHD this summer.  We had him put on strattera thinking this would help.  Although we did notice a huge change at home, he recently started 2nd grade and has been in trouble for 2 of the 4 days he has attended.  I don't know what to do anymore and am just so frustrated.  I always try to help but it never changes anything. Any discipline suggestions would be appreciated.Strattera didn't work with my daughter. She started on Concerta 18 then 36 mgs. Eventually was put on strattera up to 40 mgs. and then concerta and strattera, with no significant help. She is now on 20 mgs of Aterall. Don't give up, ask your Doc to increase his meds or try something different. I agree with barb, teachers do talk about students to each other although they shouldn't, and he probably has been labeled. I don't know what state you live in, but here in NC our schools have a 504 plan. The counselor, teacher and parents get together and discuss different forms of behavior management for the child. For instance: my little girl needs to be at the beginning of a line or at the back.....middle is too stimulating. She finishes her work quickly....as so she is allowed to draw until the rest of the class is finished......If she does misbehave, we have asked that she not be set out from recess, but is told to walk laps or jump rope to get her energy out. She is also allowed to help others, or the teacher... to help keep her occupied and out of trouble.....you could also make sure that next year he is placed with a teacher who has experience and understanding of ADHD...we have done this with both our son and daughter and it helps so much. Good luck Julied, hang in there. ReginaHave you looked into home school charter options?  It is still a public school-all materials and books are given to you free of cost.  The main difference is the positive attention your child can receive from a loving learning coach ( a parent or designated adult of your choice) Your child can still receive the much needed socialization through local support groups,extra curricular activities and any other existing options you already utilize.  If you have any questions let me know...I'm currently using this option and my son is regaining his sense of self confidence.  Best wishes to you!