Treat the bipolar as it is the more serious disorder. I have a few links you can try for more help. The Conduct Disorder link is great, but the site is down for a few days of maintenance.Should be up again next week some time and well worth it. BPkids site has a joining fee, but worth it. If you can't afford it, you can e-mail Sissy and get a waiver.
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