Well I am not one to take advice from... I just came to this board today myself. But i think it's worth a shot. I would swear my bother is adhd. And he is a grown man now. 24 I think. But now he feels to manly to admit thats somethings wrong. he will admit it to me. But to a Dr. No. I never knew how much he was upset about possible being adhd, Untill I told him one day " No ones gonna want to date you if you keep acting that way." He was SOO mad at me. And really upset that I said that. But he cant pay attention to nothing. LOL maybe its just me. Cause I am his big annoying sister.. lol he prob. ingores me on purpose.. lmao..
But really it's worth a shot just to see if you are.