I can’t keep up | ADHD Information

ya know LTC --- you can also hit Active Topics (at the top there) and you get a little selection of posts in different threads for your delight! Whats up with all the different places to post...I'm not the ADHD type that is real quick and multi-tasking...I'm the ADD type with drift...and LA LA LAND.  I can't keep up!

Just wanted to express my feelings... 
I pouted I cried I got angry I got carried away I got over it

and I stayed away from the basement
I have a hard time keeping up with it all too.  Now, tell me, who slapped your hand?  Want me to go smack them for ya? Don't sick her onto anyone.

<shudder>
I've pretty much moved to the basement. Seems the ideal thing to me - still a bunch of adhders, but no topic, thus nobody can whine about off-topic stuff.

(The basement is the bottom forum on the main page, c'mon down.)
  went to the basement some time back...few months ago... tried to play a game ...got my hand slapped for not playing right.  I had the right answer.   I just posted slower than someone else, so my answer didn't seem correct.

I'll give it another try!
Slap smlap. Come and play.

It never ceases to amaze me how supposedly grown-up people can deal with relationships and break-ups like they are 5 years old.  Acting like someone has stolen their teddy bear and they want payback.  So sad.

I've always tried to leave a relationship the way I came in - with the clothes on my back.  I'm the male and it may seem chauvenist but I always feel since I'm the "stronger sex" that I should take the penalty of having to buy new things and get myself back on top rather than make the woman suffer.  Sorry if this gets the feminists out there upset but it's the way I was raised.  My ex would always pawn my things when I walked out the door but I never made a stink.  It's only stuff.

Besides - I always get better stuff after that - kind of to make myself feel better!

I never took anything from him.  It was his home. 
when I lost my job,  I did most all the cleaning and cooking, and some of the yard work.  I tried to get him to agree since I was not working that my contribution could be taking care of the home...He laughed at me.  He tried to help me get on disability because he felt I was not capable to go out and hold a job...which still could be true, but I'm trying...I watched him make this list of what I owed him each month it grew.

In Oregon a verbal contract is binding.  The judge said having to rule on the law and not by moral or ethical feelings...something like that.. that the ex won.  I have to pay him 4187.72

The good news is...

That I'm on my own.
I'm standing alone.
I have a happy home.

So far so good.  I've been to the basement and not been slaped.

Chjones, I have been able to find the action by going to active topics.

Life is GREAT!

Now if I can just get through this small claims thing without having to pay my ex-boyfriend for living with him...


no please come to the basement,they probably did not mean it.it is fun and we are all very nice.promise

I know what you mean LTC1.  I feel like I'm running all over the place too and I can't keep up either!  Sometimes when I want to post a topic I'm not sure where to post it. 

The basement is fun LTC1.  It's not as rough as it used to be though we still slap each other around sometimes .   Just don't  take anything said to you down there personally.  You just need to have a bit of a tough skin at times   and if by chance someone does go a little over board ...well there's a lot more people now that will stand up and  slap em' back for ya! .

 

well apart from the fact that your ex is a first class w**ker...

glad you are on your own!  standing alond and with a happy home - hooray!  (now you can give dustbunny some handy tips on how to do the same thing!)

congratulations to you!
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