Puberty | ADHD Information

Hi, can someone tell me what to expect at the onset of puberty?  My son is changing!!  He's been on Concerta 54 and Risperdal at night of ODD, but the ODD is getting worse.  He's getting mouthy again, at home and school.  He's at that point where he knows it all.  I remember that.  Oh boy..I know what I'm in for.  Do you think I need to speak to his Psychiatrist about a possible med change?  Is this common at this age?  (11)  Thanks in advance for any advise!! 

Hi SUZYQ,

I have an 11 year old myself, but the puberty started about 2 years ago and so did the mouth. It seems at this age they really want to test your authority.  Many children that don't even have ADD tend to get moody and bossy and think they know everything and Mom and Dad are idots at this stage.  My daughter is not on medication and has been going through the oppositional behavior for about 2 years now.  It hasn't been easy, but for us, family counseling has been a great help.  Screaming and yelling was definitely not the answer and it only made things worse.  We have been using consequences.  The punishment fits the behavior.  In counseling, she is given time to talk about the things that make her angry and we are working on ways to deal with them and what her limits are.  This also involves my behavior too and consequences for my own actions should I behave irrationally by yelling.   Things actually seem to be getting better.  

I don't know much about the meds. part of it, but I do know that puberty can bring out the worst in pre-teens and teens for a time.  I think it is one of the hardest times for parents.  Children need to know that they are loved and supported but also that there is a limit to what behavior will be tolerated.  It  hasn't been easy for us and it's only been time and help from my counselor that has helped us so far.   We are far from through it yet and I know it could get worse so I am keeping myself educated and trying to stick by the ground rules and not back down.  This morning I have to get her to church.  Hopefully, this morning will be better then the last time I went with her.  It's tough, but you just need to hang in there and know it won't last forever.  Your Psychiatrist can help you out with methods of handling your son and the meds. part.  I don't know what I'd have done without my psychologist.  Hang in there and please know that you are not alone.   Dee
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