Marble system is a behavior plan Ogram has designed and has posted several times and has helped many.
I say make your son clean your daughters room or at least make her an apology card to show he is sorry.
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good idea!!!!! i like that one. lol Hay, my marble system has been published!!!!! I'll let you all know what issue of ADDitude it will be in. I'm not sure what issue. But, isn't that great?!?!
Marble system is a behavior plan Ogram has designed and has posted several times and has helped many.
I say make your son clean your daughters room or at least make her an apology card to show he is sorry.
I would love to see the marbe system please and yeh the making a card sounds a great idea thanks he came downstairs this morning like nothing has happened and when i asked him about his behaviour he just shrugged his shoulders aaaggghhh just been up to see daughters eye and its still swole and is getting blacker i think i'll try and keep her in as people will think i beat my kids up great eh.There is liquid caled ACIDI BORICI here, for bruises to heal faster. Where i live we have something called arnica so i'm off to the chemist later to get some i do feel sorry for her as she is always getting the brunt of aarons outbursts although sometimes she does plague him and i have told her to ignore him but its hard isnt it.My son has gave my daughter a right black eye tonight it is a big massive lump she cant open her eye and it is now black i have been placing cold compreeses on it bless her i cant believe it she has had a whole week off as we have been on holiday and now she has to have the day of tomorrow as she looks terrible how do you all punish your adhd kids i have took his xbox off him and told him its for the whole week and have just asked my daughter and she said he has apologised to her i'm at a loss here as to what to do.i use a marble system. it works great for us. it seems to be very effective in every area of his life. I don't have to raise my voice and spankings just seemed ineffective. But my son is an only child, you would have to tailor it to your specific needs. if you want it i'll post it.Does your son get violent? IF so, it's probably more than ADHD, but in the UK that's all they'll call it. Wish I could help more, but t hey call everything ADHD where you live
marble system?????