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Hey fluffy, don't beat yourself up and worry too much. Sometimes with buying a house you have to take a leap of faith if you've looked at the budget. Worrying is natural to adhd'ers, just don't get fixated on it!!!! I am in your corner and hope you can get to a good place!!! Good luck!!!
Now I know why you haven't been up lately with me on the boards!!! Stop worrying, your making me worry!!
Fluffy, where are you? How's it goin' now?[QUOTE=fluffy]OH AN I ALSO JUST FOUND OUT MY GRANDPOP HAS CANCER, HES 90 AND I DON'T THINK HE WANTS TO HANG AROUND, THATS ANOTHER THING I CANT CONTROL 
I SOOO HATE FEELING THIS WAY ..ITS NOT ME .
I'm sorry about your Grandpop, Fluffy.
I NEED TO HEAR A GOOD JOKE.
WHY CANT HELEN KELLER COOK ?
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.BECAUSE SHES DEAD....
OK THAT WAS JUST WRONG.
Now that's funny Yeah, my sence of humor is a bit warped too.
WELL GOOD NIGHT
Nite! Hope you have a better day tomorrow!
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Buying a house is an incredible amount of stress. Just read the thread - More stress, more ADHD. Yep, stress makes it worse and I'm not sure if ADHDers handle stress very well. humm, sounds like a poll....
Fluffy, sit down and breathe, your'e gonna be fine. It's gonna be fine. I bought this, my first house, on my own, three years ago. It was a nightmare looking back, having so much responsibility of getting the thing going all on my own, so many overwhelming decisions. I prayed constantly back then, to keep on track. I obsessed, and didn't sleep, and all that. If it is meant to be, it will come to you. If I can do it, you two can do it, piece of cake. Just be careful and make sure you have a VERY reputable realtor to get you through the process, especially if this is your first home.
You can always start packing and weeding through your stuff to take up some of your nervous energy.
Best of luck with everything. It's very exciting.
Fluffy, I'm so sorry about your grandpa. Are you and your grandpa really close. I don't know why I ask that because it is hard whether close or not. So sorry.
And I laughed at the Helen Keller joke too.
HI PEOPLE
MY HUSBAND AND I ARE BUYING A HOUSE (MAYBE)WE PUT A BID IN THIS WEEKEND ,I KNOW I WANT THIS HOUSE AND THE OLD ME(BEFORE MEDICINE) WOULD OBSESS ABOUT EVERY LITTLE DETAIL,I KNOW I DON'T HAVE A WHOLE LOT OF CONTROL OVER THIS SITUATION, BEFORE I WAS A BIT OF A CONTROL FREAK I'M LEARNING TO HAVE MORE FAITH AND LET GO ,IF ITS MEANT TO BE IT WILL HAPPEN. THE PROBLEM IS I THINK I'M CONCENTRATING SOO HARD ON NOT CONCENTRATING THAT I DON'T HAVE THE ENERGY TO DO ANYTHING!!!!!!IVE ALWAYS HAD INSOMNIA AND MY ADDERAL ISN'T HELPING BUT I LOVE MY INSOMNIA, ITS MY ME TIME, ... WELL ANYWAY IVE BEEN GOING TO BED WAY EARLY (11:PM) AND WAKING UP LATE, HARDLY ANY OF MY HOUSE WORK IS GETTING DONE ... I'M A LITTLE NERVOUS ABOUT HOW WE GOING TO PAY THE MORTGAGE.. MY OLE MAN IS A VERY HARD WORKER BUT DOES NOT MANAGE MONEY WELL AT ALL,WOW YOU KNOW WHAT JUST TYPING THIS IS HELPING A LITTLE... I WANT MY INSOMNIA BACK!!!!!!
Awe Fluffy.
Buying a home is a major deal and the stress associated with it is BIG! I really don't have any advise but it is normal to worry about the "what ifs". I wish you the best on the house....if you are meant to get it you will, if not there must be a better house around the corner. Good luck.
NOW IN TIRED AND SLUMISH AGAIN .. I HOPE THIS IS JUST A PHASE IVE NEVER FELT THIS WAY BEFORE.ITS A BIT SCARY
. BEFORE WHEN ID BE STRESSED OUT I COULD NOT SLEEP ..AND NOW THAT ALL I WANT TO DO .. IT IS 2:00AN RIGHT NOW BUT I'M USED TO BEING UP TILL 4 AND BUSY. IT TOOK EVERTHING I HAD JUST TO GET TO THE COMP. IS THIS DEPRESSION?thank YOU AUNTIE
THATS WHAT I KEEP TELLING MYSELF, I WISH MY BODY WOULD AGREE
OH AN I ALSO JUST FOUND OUT MY GRANDPOP HAS CANCER, HES 90 AND I DON'T THINK HE WANTS TO HANG AROUND, THATS ANOTHER THING I CANT CONTROL I SOOO HATE FEELING THIS WAY ..ITS NOT ME . I NEED TO HEAR A GOOD JOKE.
WHY CANT HELEN KELLER COOK ?
.
.
.BECAUSE SHES DEAD....
OK THAT WAS JUST WRONG.
WELL GOOD NIGHT