Well, that's what a lot of us have been talking about here for a long time. I found that out growing up. I'm adhd and from my own experience, I can say that when I was able have "hands on" and/or "participate" in the event, whether it was discipline, reward, games, reading, studies, learning or really any thing letting adhd children have a feeling of control "entitlement" will not only help with less aggravation it will also help with the child's self esteem, and that is VERY important. ADHD children have lower self esteems than others, because they are labeled "different". Good info, who was the author of the book? I'd like to read it.
The last name is spelled Fay. The authors are listed as Cline and FayThe author is Jim Frey. I learned his book "Love and Logic" from our therapist and our public school system uses too. It is more for parents who has difficulty kids. Many people who attended classes have ADHD kids. They have a website and the authors do tour around country and gave talks. There are videos and tapes etc too. I bought a used book from Amazon.com and very, very useful.