I hope you can find help for yourself and your sister. I think a good psychiatrist that can disscuss things well would be of great help.
My daughter is on 27mg concerta in the morining and 2mg guanfacine AM and PM. Because she is so skinny and started to lose weight on the concerta, the doctor could not increase the concerta to a more effective dose (it works well, but not quite enough). So he added the guanfacine because it is also effective for some adhd symptoms and helps with weight gain.
It is so nice to see my daughter successful in school this year. She is now happier, more confident and the anxiety and depression of last year have disappeared. Last year, she was getting mostly Ds and Fs in any area that needed reading (she did well in math), despite the hours struggling with homework. In her strong subject (math) she could not pass the timed tests; she just went too slow (got every problem that she completed correct, but could not finish enough problems to pass). She is now passing these timed tests (with 100% correct).
It takes me FOREVER to read. if it's boring, for eaxample, if i'm doing homework, it consumes all my time and i have no time for anything else. if it's something i'm interested in, i still have a problem. although i guess all of my homework takes longer than it should, the reading is what takes longest. there is a reading assignment i did not do over the summer, so my teacher just said to give it to him whenever i finish. my other work is already taking way too long, and i don't know how im going to finish this other assignment. plus, i just keep putting it off. i was never diagnosed with any kind of reading or learning disability, yet when i read, my focus is so poor that i feel like im illiterate.If you have ADHD, the meds may help you stay on task and get through the "boring" stuff without your mind wandering too bad. You need to sort out the posibility of dyslexia with the doctor as well. If you try meds, you will have to make yourself learn new study habits, but should be more successful at this than before meds (they do not do all of the work for you). If you don't get the desired effects (after giving them a good try at optimum dose), you can always stop them, and not be in any worse shape than now.
My 10 year old daughter went from 3+ painful hours of homework a night before meds (with fighting and constant supervision to keep on task), to homework being done in school or before I am home from work. She doesn't like reading like her sister, but does it without complaint and actually gets something out of her reading now. She now gets As and Bs in school rather than the Ds and Fs of last year before meds. She has mild dyslexia with her ADHD.
vickie39045.8844444444I believe ivanhoe is referring to vision therapy.
VT MIGHT HELP FOR YOU .what's VT? I'm confused READING DISORDERS REGARDLESS NEED FIXED. EYE Q WILL HELP YOU READ FAST i SAW THE ADVERTISEMENT. IT WAS APPROVED BY A EYE DR. THIS IS VT FOR THE HOME.The weight issues do not happen with everyone, and may go away after the body adjusts to the meds. To counteract this issue, you can make sure to eat before meds in the morning and after meds wear off in the evening, make protein shakes, add protein powder or olive oil to foods to boost the calories (I add these to my daughter's soup-her favorites), make milk shakes with icecream and pediasure, etc. My daughter's appetite is not really affected, she just never had a good appetite and she is skinny like her dad was at this age. We just have no leeway for weight loss for her.
It's funny to hear that....math is my strong subject as well, and for me, the more reading that's involved in the schoolwork, the hader a time I have with it.When I take math tests, and when I took the PSATs, I was OK with the material, I just always run out of time. On the PSAT I missed about a third of the problems in one of the math sections because I ran out of time. the reading section..forget it. i probably got half of what I was able to complete wrong, and the rest I had no time for. actually, someone on this forum told me to not even read the passages. i'm going to try that, but i still will take long with the math, and may still run out of time, just because everything I do takes longer than it should.