Talkin of not wantin to be alive!




	Talkin of not wantin to be alive! Neldy: dear one...let me ask you a question if I may. How old are you? You know that really doesn't matter because I think 'everyone' here probably has said the same thing at sometime or another...and not have add/adhd. It's all a part of life and I think that if you have anyone that you can talk to about WHY you're feeling like this you'll figure out that it IS something making you feel this way. You know that you can come here and we welcome you and open our arms to you...but I do think that you really 'need' to open up to your mom (if you can) about your feelings...make her listen to you. We are 'always' here for you though. It would help though if you had a physical person in front of you to talk with. Can you talk to anyone about how you're feeling?Nedly, you're not alone. my son has said that he wished he was never born and has also told me that he should just kill himself. he's only 10 w/adhd. i've asked why he has these feeling and he has told me that "i can't do anything right so i might as well not be here" or "nobody likes me so no one will miss me" it is a tough thing to hear your child say that to you. you do need to talk to someone close to you and let them know how you are feeling so you can get some help. i am 31 and in the past i have had thoughts of "everyone would be better off without me" i knew that my thinking wasn't right so i went for help and ended up on effexor for depression. i know you have family and friends that love you and would do anything to help you.....so why not let them. please let us know what happens. i'm sure i'm not the only who feels that even though i don't know you personally....i still care. Explain we all learn in different speeds and ways. I did this helped some. I have also showed him where he was and where is now. Helped also.They just want exceptence. Talk with child this has realy helped. I think they seeing you express yours. Guys usual expresss less anyways. Girls are more expressive minded.Told our son some people are great at some things and some better at other things.We are all the same.That's ok. Are you doing Best. Scouts has been great for our son everyone excepts him there. rshn Rae: I can relate to how Neldy feels at times. When I go looking for a job. I have really no skills.This makes life harder as well.Today it takes 2 incomes to make it mostley.Everything should be less money. Moms should be able to be with kids.Raising a Special kid is expensive. My inlaws don't see that. They say I am the problem not him.They pay my husband $40,000. yearly and tell us this will have to do.He can't/won't go any where else to work. He doesn't get it either.With inflation I hope we won't get homeless.They just take care of what you can afford to do.I had already had to tell our son sorry do to ins. we can't continue with private speech therapy. They don't understand.He said to the therapist why can't you be my teacher.We still keep in touch though.This broke my heart. When with her made huge ganes.Any help welcome.our son this picture. I am doing my best. rshn I know that I have been told that whenever I say I wish I was dead that its just ADHD..but really it ain't thats how I feel...SOmtimes I wish my Mom never brought me into this stupid world wit the prob that I have... ty krobb I needed that Y'all please go back and read "Good points and hints" on the parents board and get a new perspective on this. You don't have to accept the idea but I think you'll see yourselves very much. ADHD is not bad. You have a place in society where you would be the strong ones and the others would need you. Neldy - I am having a hard time thinking that your thoughts and wishes are specific to ADHD. Yes, that's definately a problem, but there can still be joy in life. It's very possible that I just don't understand, as I am here for my ADHD son rather than for myself. When he was on medication, he would sometimes tell me that he wished he could die, but it was rare and we always sat down to discuss what was happening and what had made him feel that way. Who do you have to talk to about your feelings? Will your mom listen? Maybe a friend, or a mentor at school? Rather than put this off to adhd, figure out what is going on in your life that upsets you this much. You don't deserve to have those thoughts. Like I said, I may not really understand, but I want to encourage you to believe that you are indeed special and that your gifts are important to this world. You just might be the one to start the butterfly effect. Neldy, life does get easier as you get older, just always keep focussed on the positives about yourself and there would be some. Be proud of you successes no matter how small. And I doubt your mother feels that she wishes she never had you. ADHD does suck, but it is also a gift. My sons psychiatrist told me that the brain is still developing at 30-40 years and this is when the brain learns to become more focusses. I am 33 and I am just starting to feel a little more competent and I am really learning to like who I am. I contribute a lot to the world, not in the standard sorts of way, but I fill in gaps that the normals dont. Light and love to you girl. Rachael	Enter Your Email below to claim your Free Book

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