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Hi! madhdline,
It is great to see another European on the board, welcome!.
I find this women's experience of ADD/ADHD facinating as so little is known
about it in Ireland. I am in a support group where i live and am always searching
for practical information. This board is great for that. Am also looking for other
peoples experiences of living with ADHD in different countries. What is the
situation like in your country. I am sure there are others on the board who are
interested as well!
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What annoys me most are the preconceived ideas about adhd. There are lots of related afflictions, and people don't necessarily have the same textbook symptoms and behave the same textbook with them. With adhd, people here in Belgium still always expect someone who is the bunjee-jumping, rally-driving, drug-using trouble seeker. I am none of that, I am a "good" person (haha), and people take one look, and say "nah, you don't have adhd", you have a degree, you are smart, and maybe you are a bit weird, but that is just you".
Then people say oh but you have ADD, but no, ADD people as I understand it, are more slow, and spaced out? Where as I am constantly rocketing around, if not in real life, than in my mind, and my muscles are always tense, etc etc.
The toughest thing about ADHD in Belgium is that you have to travel far to get to see specialists, and that even the specialists are very vague and unwilling to give crystal clear diagnoses, and seem to stick to clinical descriptions "attention problem", "bad short term visual memory", impulsive tendencies and that kind of thing. And even though they constantly talk about me having adhd "with your adhd, blablalba", they don't actually sign and seal a diagnosis, which I find annoying. It is as if the word diagnosis frightens them.
we have a really cool forum in the Netherlands and Belgium, which offers good support. Although it becomes obvious that we all are tending to get rather addicted to this forum
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So Ryan 1950, how is adhd in Ireland? How well is it understood? I'm very curious. And... any other Europeans out there?