Thanks for the reply Willsmama.
I don't think Tyler will understand that the patch will be easier then the pill because of his ASD (Autistc spectrum disorder). I guess I should wait for the DR. to come up with a plan. I just can't imagin what the DR is going to do for him. I never wanted to get medication in him so badly but I think that it is going to help him focus. He is not hyper at all, just very easly distracted. I hope someone out there has some experence with this same problem. Thanks again.
HI ,CAN ANYONE TELL ME MORE ABOUT THE PATCH?
Hi!
We switched from Metadate to the patch for about 4 days. It worked as well as the Metadate and was longer lasting. My son had issues applying and taking it off and I had issues with the 2 hours it took to kick in.
So we stopped and are back on the Metadate and a short dose in the afternoon of Ritalin. The good thing is that Will complained about having to take the pill but hated the patch so much, that he no longer complains about it.
My other son, is like yours when it comes to meds.. He gags on everything too. The last time he was sick, the dr gave him a chewable and told him it was either that or a shot for 3 days to rid him of his infection.. 
Has anyone had their child on Metadate then switched to the patch??
My son is 6 1/2 and was told he was ADD at 5. Dr gave him Metadate, but he has sensory issues and it is very hard for me to get it in him. No matter how hard I try to hide it. So I cant say if this medication ever worked and I gave up. Seems like he is having a harder time this year and the teacher recommened I try again, but I know he will not take it by mouth. He also was dignosed with pdd-nos at 2 1/2 so it is hard for him to understand that if he takes this he will feel better. He always seem to figure it out when I try to hide it in food or drink and then he wont eat that food/drink ever again. He has a very limited menu as it is. This kid will vomit even when I give him Tylenol. Thank God he does not get sick very often. My question is. We are goin to the dr (nero) in March but I was wondering if anyone knows if the patch and metadate is on the same family of drugs? and any other suggestions in trying to get medication in him.
Thanks for listining,