I have been putting off taking my ds to a specialist for about 6 months or more mainly because everything's either too hectic or going good, sometimes I think I'm overreacting to things and some people think my ds is playing me so I second guess my gut feelings some more.
Had parent teachers conference yesterday and it kicked my @ss into high gear - one teacher said instead of talking and being silly getting in trouble like he used to, he just sits there with his head down, had a former intern sub one day and she tracked a teacher down to ask what was wrong with ds he was so withdrawn, one teacher brought up signs of autism (have suspected aspergers for awhile now but pediatrican and behavioral therapis weren't in a hurry to dx yet), another said he constantly picks at fingers, pulls his hair out and puts it in piles on his desk, counts squares on his shirt (very compulsive behaviors I notice at home also except the hair pulling - dr. thought anxiety but one teacher wants to say it's the meds, switched to Daytrana about 3-4 months ago), answered one T or F question on a 40 minute test. He's forgot or lies about homework and ends up having double the next night (usually math) and takes HOURS to complete it (constantly standing over him).
DS turned in 19 late assignments (he's very disorganized, forgetful - working on this with his teachers currently) yet he had all A's, one B and one C. Reads at a high level and can read 2 big books at once and ace the tests.
One teacher insists the change occured after the med change, the other 2 tend to agree with me - after xmas break. Finally spoke with the pediatrician today and said I can't wait another year for a referral (her recommendation, although she had no problem with whatever we decided). She referred us to a developmental pediatrician at the Children's Hospital. From reading the boards, I've got the impression a neuropsychologist is a good start, but I don't really get an answer from his regular pediatrician - only "they're for brain disorders".
Does anyone have an opinion between the two? I know they don't do any academic testing - would it be necessary with high grades even though he seems to struggle completing work? The Dev. Ped. said it will take about 1 1/2 hours (1/2 hour paperwork - and I fax as much info as I can ahead of time) and cost 0. Also can't get in until beginning of June!
Sorry so long - any opinions or previous experience with a dev. ped. would be appreciated. Thanks!!!
If you would feel better having him tested, the school can do that. You need to put it in writing, call the district office and ask them where to send it. I think a developmental pediatrician is a good place to start. You can also go to a psychologist or psychiatrist. The psychiatrist we saw specialized in children's disorders.I think it depends on what you think the isssue is. A neuropsych can look at issues related to ADHD and the posible co-morbid conditions, help sort out learning disorders and whether the issues are due to wrong med or wrong diagnosis. Your post sounds to me like this is the direction you are leaning. A dev ped would be a good start if you are leaning towards aspergers or mild autism.
Developmental ped:
http://www.ummeed.org/services/dpa.asp
What a neuropsychologist is:
http://www.medfriendly.com/neuropsychologist.html
And a kind of long technical read on the overall process throught the autism spectrum disorder diagnosis journey:
http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/cgi/content/full/107/5 /e85
I hope this helps.
My son sees a developmental pediatrician with specialization in ADHD and saw the neuropsych just for evaluations. she concurred with the diagnosis
Thank you all for your advice/opinions. It sure helps to kind of put things in perspective and see what you want/need for your child.
I believe we will keep the appt with the dev. ped. to start with and definitely follow up with a neuropsych if we feel or she feels necessary afterwards.
I was curious if the meds could cause some of his behavior, but I worried the problem would be that they'd need upped. I understand that is necessary as they grow and their body changes, but I want to be sure that it is the problem and necessary. He's on 20mg patch so I think I will try cutting it in 1/2 and seeing if this helps some of his behavior - the backing is already hard to peel off, can't wait to try when it's cut! 
I agree and actually thought about it, but I wasn't going to talk to his pediatrician before trying this and the patches only come in 10, 20 & 30 to my knowledge. So I thought, if it worked I could just keep getting the 20 mg prescription and cutting in 1/2 or suggest the 10 to his dr. Wasn't sure if she'd prescribe enough for me to cut and use 15 since cutting the patch is supposedly not recommended.
Whew....Ok, I'll try the 15mg first!
You talked me into it!


Appreciate all the insight - trying the 15 mg today (Sat) but the real test will be Monday at school since this is where most of the picking and hair pulling happens - think possibly because he can keep his hands busy at home playing games, etc. I'll let you all know how it goes after a few days.
Thanks!