Bf advice plz!!!!!! | ADHD Information

why havent you guys talked for 4 weeksBut you see last monday he called right...my foster dad said that I would call him back in 10 mins...I tried callin back and he didn't answer the phone...so wat now????I ahve always tried callin him but his mother says he is not there...so I ahve no idea wat to do now....should I just give up?Neldy - Nothing is wrong with you girl!  You are fabulous.  Maybe you were too pushy (we girls tend to do that sometimes), so listen to your Mom on this one.  We all know that ADHD gets us talking and keeps us talking, so that is what you need to try and curb.

Here's what I've learned - find other things that keep you busy - I know there is plenty.  If he has decided it's over but can't find it within him to tell you, maybe it's time to let it go.  Don't call again.  If he hasn't called back by now, he probably won't, but don't let it get you down because he obviously isn't the right guy for you anyway.

From now on, let them chase YOU!  You are strong and wonderful and beautiful.  Do  what is right for you and quit worrying about making other people happy.  Be happy with yourself first, everything else will come along in time.  Thats a very hard concept, and it took me into my 20's before I realized that I was indeed special in my own right and I was done being used by others.

I still enjoy doing things for others, but doing those things because it makes ME happy, rather than hoping it will make THEM happy.  Sounds convoluted, but it works.

Hugs to you!
I know that I have found recently (espically with guy friends) that when I meet someone I have to talk to them all the time....I know my Mom has told me plenty of times to take it easy with my bf....but then he has also been talking about having kids with me as well as gettin married and well I go with it and now well I haven't talked to hime now for almost 4 weeks.....am I to pushy about hte subject...but then he has also been pushing for that too???? Whats wrong with me I guess is wat I am asking??????

Need some advice on thig bf of mineThis topic is no longer an issue...ty u everyone for the help...we are together againBF I thought I had one.Did not see each other for10 years. We ended up in same town 3 years ago.She is single and I'm  married. Realized less in common than before.So go on because I have learned God is your real only friend.I seemed to get let own when come to others.I just do my own things which there for never is let down unless mess up myself. rshn