No this is not how the disorder should be diagnosed, but it often is if you go to a ped...did you go to a pediatrician, or a child psychiatrist?
If you feel uncomfortable with the diagnosis, get a referrall to a child psych, and have more thorough testing done.
Yes, the talkativeness can sometimes be a reaction....perhaps he is so enthralled with his new clear brain, and just not feeling so active, may make him talkative....may be this will lessen as he becomes accustomed to the new feeling of control and focus.
Yes the meltdown after the med has left the system is common as well. No one really can say why...but it could be that once the feeling of control the med offers leaves, the child is overwhelmed with feeling out of control....you may need to try a different med that could perhaps leave the system more gradually, or there are ways to augment the long acting med to ease in rebound problems. The rebound can ease as well after the child becomes more used to the med.
It is good that you are going to give the med a month, as some problems will ease once the body gets used to the meds.
Welcome luvmy4boys,
Chasesmom79 gave a good explanation of everything.
I just wanted to say that while you are starting treatment, you might want to see if you can find a psychiatrist (not psychologist-they can't write prescriptions) to transition to. It takes time to find one but they can be very helpful. They are more experienced at med managment than a pediatrician and can be more help with the things that can come with ADHD (oppositional, depression, anxiety, etc.). You and your son will be dealing with this disorder through many changes as he grows.
Here is also a site for ADHD information that might be helpful:
http://www.help4adhd.org/en/about
I had a doctors appointment this week for my six year old son to discuss his behavior. My son has always been a hyper and scattered child, but not too hard to deal with. But, more and more I've seen him not be able to control his anger. One of his brothers would do something to him (accidentally or on purpose), and he would go balistic hitting them with anything that he could grab or go on a screaming fit. One day I told him that it was time to come in, he lost it. He grabbed a plastic golf club and started hitting himself in his privates while screaming. This was when I knew I had to get to a doctor.hmmm
not sure
look at from the point of view that meds are an aid not the cure
also im trained to deal with 12 kids at a time having melt downs is a zoo.
any way im saying im trained to be in thier heads so much that i see the outburst coming and to head it with redirecting prompts consequinces get thier attention but rewarding them for thinking of new behavior on thier own
ill re edeit this further
yes it does sound like adhd but something else i cant put my finger on
unchecked can become mal adaptive behaviors
call in a serious pro now
Thank you for your responses. I just checked with our insurance company, and there are no child psychiatrists in our area that carry our insurance. We definately cannot afford to pay out-of-pocket for the doctor. Where should I go from here? I went to this doctor because he was highly recommended from another mom who has a son with ADHD. I didn't know what to expect when I went in there, but I did expect more than what we got!
He did get up through the night, but we did have a loud storm that went through. And his eating is still pretty good.Doesn't it stink that insurance plays such a part in our decisions. I am having to get another doctor for my son because his psychiatrist stopped taking our insurance. I live in a major city in Texas and there are only about 4 in the whole metroplex area on my insurance. I was told to try calling some of the psychiatrists that are on the lists for adults. Some of them have extensive backgrounds in all ages. They sometimes neglect to put this on the paper work they have to do for the insurance companies because their paper work is so extensive.
We make too much for any help from the Government, but we don't make enough to support a family of six. We are kinda stuck in the middle like a lot of families. As far as I know, there is no help available.
Where should I go from here?Michelle,
Try contacting a local university. They often have programs that can help.
Just a thought....correct me if I am wrong but if your son has been diagnosed with ADHD....even after such a very limited interview c**p in my mind...is there not any sort of charity that could help you...maybe linked to a church or something? sorry not so good on American systems!!!....I feel so lucky to have the NHS sometimes...for all its faults you do at least get access to the help you need...eventually....reguardless of means and insurance...I think most of my kids would have died of cheast infections by now if that was the case for me, I find it hard enough paying the rent!!