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It sounds like he's finally happy and able to do the things he's always wanted to do but couldn't. I'm a small business owner myself and believe me when I say.. I wish I could get to the LONG list of "To Dos" and get my business rolling better.

It doesn't sound like it's anything to be concerned of. I don't want to sound out of line by saying this... but are you upset that you're losing some of the control that you once had? I know it can be shocking to see such a difference after so many years.

Of course he should spend quality time with the family.. but I think it's more along the lines that he's making up for lost time. It'll even out eventually. As for being 'high' I would think not... they don't give enough of a dosage to get high, you'd have to take a lot more than is prescribed for that to happen.

Bottom line... enjoy the break and let him take over some tasks... but also remind him that family comes first.

Just asking for some advice here.

I have been married to my wonderful husband for the past 19 years. Four months ago he was diagnosised with ADHD. He takes Adderall 3x a day.

But some of his personality has really changed.

For one, he will stay at work for hours to complete the day's work. Before, he could walk away and enjoy some family time. (we are small-business owners). But now, all he can think about is making the business more successful.

He used to be less "in command". Now, he has an opinion, states it loudly and strongly. Very much in charge. This week he fired an employee that had been with us for 15 yrs. While yes, he did need to go a long time ago.....I never thought he would actually do it.

The Laundry. He decided that he would start doing the laundry. He has always enjoyed doing it, but never "took it over'. He does it every night, neat, organized and in every kids room. My kids wear something today and very likely it will be back in their drawer, clean by midnight.

See what I mean?? I wonder if he is "high". Or is it that he is flying high because he can now complete something. Everyone is making comments about his 360 degree turn around.

Should I be concerned? He says no, but I wonder.

 

Thank you for the reply.

I am mainly in shock! I have encouraged him for the past two years to address the ADD, which he knew he had. I knew there would be changes but Oh My Gosh!!

I think you do have a point about the control issue. For as long as I can remember, I have been the one in charge. Mainly because I am the organizer, planner and decision maker (only because I could actually make one). For years, I was really resentful because I felt so heavy carrying all the details, worry and motivation for the both of us. But I got over that and accepted it.

So, now...I have what I wanted for so many years. I am glad. I know I can step back. I just wasn't expecting this drastic of a change. So, I needed to know if this was normal or not. Or if I should be concerned about his meds or amounts.

But it sounds like this is very normal. So, I am going to stop worrying and enjoy my "new" husband!