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[QUOTE=Rae70]Mel, yes you may be kissing under the misteltoe . Dont waste this single time tho. Do some self work and improve your own mind and attitude and dont spend your whole time searching for a man, spend time on you.
I wish at 18, I focussed more on me, and not on the natural urges to procreate , I imagine my life would have been a lot more financial by now and less stressful. But in hindsight ..........
Best of luck and stay in touch, love to know how things are going for you.
[/QUOTE] I agree with Rae. Mel, if I knew at 18 what the hell was wrong with me and was DX'ed, I would have certainly focusd more on ME instead of keeping a boyfriend. I probably would be less stressed out and more financially secure. My money problems last longer than any boyfriend I ever had. Except for my hubby!
A rare find. To put up with me.... But keep the mistletoe in mind!Latina-ADD38297.9372800926ITS BEEN LONG TIME SINCE I POSTED ANYTHING ON HERE. I AM 18YR OLD FEMALE FROM HERTFORDSHIRE IN UK I HAVE ADHD.
MY ADHD HASNT BEEN TOO BAD LATELY ALTHOUGH I HAVE BEEN TIRED & MOODY 
IM SINGLE NOW IF ANYONE HAS READ ANY OF POSTS I HAVE WRITTEN BEFORE ON THIS BOARD ABOUT MY ADHD & LOVE LIFE. I SPLIT FROM MY 2YR RELATIONSHIP FEW MONTHS BACK USUAL STORY LOVE WASNT THERE ANYMORE NOTHING HOLDING US TOGETHER 
ITS XMAS IN 7 WEEKS SO MAYBE SANTA BRING ME NEW MAN FOR XMAS!!!
Mel, yes you may be kissing under the misteltoe . Dont waste this single time tho. Do some self work and improve your own mind and attitude and dont spend your whole time searching for a man, spend time on you.
I wish at 18, I focussed more on me, and not on the natural urges to procreate , I imagine my life would have been a lot more financial by now and less stressful. But in hindsight ..........
Best of luck and stay in touch, love to know how things are going for you.
I am 18 adult now 
But I sometimes dont act it what with my ADHD always making me some-one I dont want to be
Since my last posts I am now single I have no boyfriend. Xmas is fast approaching so best buy some Mistletoe!!! 
Ok well I will write again soon alot of arguments been happening here Adhd been bad this week!!!
Mel17herts,Good that you have come back to keep in touch. i must agree with Rae70 and
Latina-ADD, this time you have is a "Time to learn to focus on Mel just to be
Mel the individual and love that person as she is really. On relationship, that will
be part of you again when you become more comfortable with this new you and
as you learn to manage you as you are now. You as an ADHDer have a great
deal of creative talent, a heart that this world needs, an insight on things that is
purely your own that we can all learn from just knowing and communicating with
you. Mel you may be "labelled" ADHD and be seen as part of a minority group
but you are still An Individual with a view and experience of life that has value
to you, those close to you, those that come in contact with you.
p.s. Should'nt the name now be "Mel18herts"
Do keep in touch !