This is a link to guide for mental health in children. It is put out by Childrens Hospitla in Boston, so many things may be related to Massachusetts law, but it is quite helpful for a guide on "how to" and who to contact, tat kind of thing. So agian some of the "laws" may not apply to you, but I though people may be able to use some of this information.
http://www.childrenshospital.org/clinicalservices/Site1936/m ainpageS1936P16.html