I post on a message board full of women that are not "politically correct".
Somehow or another I've managed to piss off the entire board. Only to find out on other threads that many of them have never liked me. Not that many of them have ever met me in person, mind you. I just always thought that I was somewhat well-regarded or at least persona non grata. I just found out that many of them, do not nor have ever liked me. Or so they say. Wow! The things you learn.
Have any of y'all ever experienced this? I know that ADD affecting personal relationships was one of the markers but I always thought that it didn't apply to me.
Who else has gotten clued in after years of living on the shores of the 'de nile'?
I used to swim in de-nile. My skin was too thin though, and the crocadiles had no problem ripping me to shreads. My Father gave me a swell armour encrusted skin diving suit when I complained of the attacks. Now they chew on me, toss me around to hasten my defeat... but when I land on the bank I'm still standing on my feet. I learned that when I let go of the fear of what others think of me, I was then able to grasp some humility. Any more I just honestly ask myself if there is any truth to what they think and say. If there is, the humility gives me the where-with-all to change. If it isn't true, the lack of fear allows me to forgive.
marco the KIDD
Hey, ADD&Proud, I've been reading your posts and I think you rock.Thanks.
I realize now that it was probably kind of like Jr. High school. You know how when one person of some 'social' prominence decides that they don't like you and then everyone piles on with a 'I never liked you either'. I think it was one of those. It's no wonder why I don't get along all that well with most women.
it doesnt matter to me anymore if people like me.
i just i have to focus on being genuine.
its so easy for me to lie who can like a liar or even know who the liar is beneath the fake persona. so sometimes i take a step back to see if im defending lies when people start to express thier disdain for me. and whats worse is how can i takle it personal when what thier hating is only a faccade anyway.
besides im married so i only care about her love for me.
for rest i try to see the all as real peoples with real feelingsand some with hard problems that cant be fixed.
its nice to be like 'NORM" FROM THAT TV SHOW CHEERS.
wher everybody knows youre name. and for others i see are just trying to get a rush from getting a rise out people they dont really know.
so yea i could go to another board and be a sterotype and say biased and insentive things as banter but how does that help me , how could that help others.
i mean i try to be noble but im more of an adhd male whose tired of trying to be the center of attentiom and then letting my self esteem wrangle with folly and insinserity, apathy.
further i once hurt someones feelings just because i was trying to make a vague point i decided i didnt want to be so careless anymore .