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I wonder if there are ADHD self-help groups in my area? I would like to meet other people who have the same difficulties as I do--maybe they've found solutions they can pass on to me.

Imagine waking up in a foreign country, where everyone has a different skin color, you cannot speak the language, the culture is completely different, even the architecture is different. After a few years, you can communicate with others to satisify your basic needs and even carry on conversations about the weather.  One day, you are at the local market and you bump into someone who not only has the same skin color and speaks your language, but is actually from your home town!

I had such an experience last night. I went to a meeting of a local self-help group for adult ADDers. I had never met someone else with ADD other than my son and sister, so it is hard to see them other than the people I have know all my life (or all their life). It was very different meeting new people with the same view of the universe. It was almost like a borg collective in that we essentially knew what the others were saying before they completed their thought. We were bouncing around to so many different topics and everyone was following the multiple trains of thought with no problem. Well, actually the lady from the city self-help office was having trouble and even mentioned that she was amazed that we were all able to follow things so well.

Although I have come to terms with my ADD and see it as a positive thing in many regards, it was wonderful to finally meet people face to face who "know".

 

I'll bet it was great!

I know a few other ADHD'ers and we have the most bizarre, speedy, wild conversations because we "get" each other.

I've said many times that we can do 120mph while the rest of the world is stuck at 60.

I have no idea what normies do for entertainment if they can't play with their own brains for fun
That is how I felt when I found this board!!!!!  All these years I thought I was nuts....even scared I had something as serious as Alzheimers the last couple of years.    All I can say is my self-esteem has improved a great deal.  I no longer feel "crazy."  I have accepted who I am, I don't care who does, and I no longer feel the need to try to explain my actions to "the others."