all he does is lie, even when the thruth is in front of him, he will swear that he is telling the thruth. can any one help. please.

I don't have to deal with lying, but since he really believes that he is telling the truth, then something else is obviously going on. Could any medications be making him hallucinate?

This poor little guy, he really needs someone to stand bye him and help.

lola,

  Sorry I don't have an anwser because I'm in the same boat. My son can do something right in front of my face and lie that he did it. Some times he make me feel like I'm crazy

hugs to you, I am so sorry for your grief. I would be upset as well and missing him horrifically (sp??). I can't imagine that he is not missing you! I wonder what he gets from lying so he continues to do so. I guess a professional should be able to get to the bottom of that, you would only hope.

I would think he would get home sice eventually and want to come home

Please stick around and post, I find it helps when we get upset!

I hope you are feeling better, Can you visit him tomorrow?

well the police say they are taking me to court and even though they have heard the tape and have statements from two poeple who he has told that i did not hit him, i am going to court and no i am not seeing him any more, i cant its killing me, so he will be placed with a member of family on his fathers side that have not seen him since he was 4, nor has his father.

yes i am hurt and crying while writing this but i am going to put my all into work as when this does go to court i will lose my job as well, at the moment i dont have to tell them.

laraine

But wouldn't the tape stand up in court as evidence?

when i see him there are two people there, when i phone him it is on a speaker so every one can hear, i have no privite moments with him and he says he is telling people that i never hit him, the foster parent has been changed, and he does not like the one he is with, in fact it is all a mess, i am still waiting for the police to act, becouse i have been told untill they sort out what they are doing i cant have privite moments with him and there is no way they will let him home, so i have to just sit and wait for the police to do something. i am missing him like mad, and he will be in care for christmas, and his birthday. i have tried to rush the police but the more i phone the more they are digging in there heels, so i have to just sit and wait, i see him twice a week for an hour and one phone call a week, he has asked for more and they will not aollow it.

LOLA1952,

Hang in there. It sounds like they are just making sure he is ok, which isn't such a bad thing. I am sure you are so missing him. I am glad that you are in contact as often as it sounds. The supervised conversations, visits, etc. will only prove that nothing is going on. I am also glad that he is also asking for more.

Things will get better.