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Thanks for the advice below, I wanted to remove this long drawn out mail, I'll replace it will I was diagnosed as having ADHD In October 2007, it was a breath of fresh air to find out, and its great finding people here who know what it feels like everyday to be like this :)LindzUSA39384.288900463

Dear Lindz USA,

If you are looking for advice on how to get along with your wife better, you might post under Spouses and Partners of ADHD Adults.

I have found the Love and Respect materials helpful.

A wife desires Love as illustrated by COUPLE:

C Closeness.  The husband should avoid being cold to the wife. 

O Openess.  You husband should find ways to express his feelings and disappointments, and triumphs.

U  Understanding.  When the wife makes a mistake, or things don't go right, the husband should be forgiving.  If the husband is starting to complain, try to be Understanding, and put the ideals into the realities of a family situation. 

P  Peacemaking. The Husband should be able to say, "I am sorry" even when he is not totally to blame.

L  Loyalty.  Husband should give the wife a feeling that she can depend upon him.

E  Esteem.  Husband shoul avoid criticsim, and say nice compliments to the wife.

Check the Love Diet.  Call your wife to say hello, and be supportive three times a day.

Practice Unditional Love as much as possible.

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Otter