Thank you so much for all of your responses. I had the idea in my head that these visits should be more often, once a week in the beginning until we got a handle on things, and after reading all of your posts it seems my head was in the right place.
We have our first appt w/the child psychiatrist on Mon, so hopefully he will be of help to us, as I think we're in need for a med change. I think I will call the therapist DH & I have used in the past & ask her for some direction. At this point I think we're in need of more help than just for DS, we need help as a couple and as a family.
we also used a social worker for counseling instead of a psychologist and went weekly. We also had a "set" appointment, we see the psychiatrist for med checks every 3-6 months depending on how things are going. Our social woker moved and at this point we are not doing any counseling. This all depends in the screening process I remember the 1x per week for 2-3 weeks then another appointment with just myself and my husband for the results. Once that was done he met with my girl 1-2 more times and helped us with a plan and then we came back 1 month later to let him know how it went and to make adjustments. Now we go 2 x per year as needed I also know I can call him anytime with questions or concerns and he will help me over the phone and if he feels is serious enough he has us come in. Ours has had my child pegged day one and is awesome.DH & I just had our 2nd appt w/child psychologist today and I left feeling very disappointed. First of all, we waited for over a month for the first appt and then 2 wks for the 2nd appt and now another whole month for the next appt. Is this normal? She just met w/us today w/o DS to discuss suggestions for discipline or ways to change behaviors. Most of what we talked about are things that we've already tried and only came up with a couple things to try. Our first psychiatrist appt is on Mon, which I'm hoping produces a med change. How often does everyone out there meet with their psychiatrists or psychologists? At our appt today we dove right into discussing DS so I didn't even get a chance to ask questions that I had prepared and now feel like I have to wait another whole month to ask them! Part of me is expecting a "miracle fix" with these appts but realistically I know it will take some time. I just feel like 2 wks and a month between appts isn't helping us.
We use a counselor instead because we felt she could give our son more consistency and us the time we needed to help him. She gets quite busy too. Thank goodness we can book appointments in advance each time we go. So we usually go every 2 weeks. Sometimes once a month depending on our need. In the beginning we went weekly.
We use a psychiatrist for the med check and the one we use allows us to come in every 3 months for a med check. We get prescriptions monthly. They send us the prescription in the mail monthly when we are ready for the next prescription.