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School has started and my son has already gotten into fights with the same boy he got into fights with all last semester he's only 8 and We discussed at his IEP meeting last year that he would have an assistant that would be outside with him so he would know someone is watching him and he won't get into fights his EBD liason said that there was someone up till March of last year going outside with him but since she went on maturnity leave her assistant had to take on her case load and couldn't go out side with him. and thats when the problem started but I got a copy of his IEP last I had thought that it would be in his IEP it's not it says on there Classroom assistant would that be the same for outside to and if not what can I do so I can get one because they are giving me the run around And I don't like it one bit.

This Fight My son was trying to help a friend because the Principal "they were rough housing" and Micheal my son thought they were fighting so he stepped in but The Lunch supervisor said "thats to rough" to the boys and my daughter had to break it up.  So I don't think he started it. but I didn't get a paper or phone call anything about him getting a fight or a detention I heard it from my kids...And they still haven't  emailed me back and Jessica thank you for that tip I won't sign it next month thats for sure. They split my son and the boy in class but being in the same class was not a problem it was the recess and the fighting coming into the class after recess that was a problem. This School is going to Pot I was talking to another parent and found out they got more money for hireing 5 Title I teachers but They can't hire some one for the kids that do have a problem outside with other children so they can have outside time too which this parent is the cousin of the boy that my son has problems with she didn't say anything so I'm thinking that maybe it happens at home too.

Can you ask for a meeting with the members of your ARD meeting to discuss this development and ask that your IEP be amended?  If they were doing it last year it seems to me that they would understand this is not something new but an area where he needs help.TAke it home and read it cover to cover first.Jessica N39908.4074884259

Is he starting the fights or is the other boy?  If the other boy is you can tell the school your son is being bullied and you want it stopped either by having the teacher out at recess watching or you will find out what you can do about the bullying  from the school district administrators.  Ask for a meeting to modify your son's iep in writing and express your concern over the overlooked violence they are letting happen.  They should have atleast had both your son and this other boy in some kind of mediation or help with their social behavior before this. Even without in iep.

He used to be at a different school that was very considerate and now that he's at this school I'm about to tell my husband to go in there and I might just have to take him out and homeschool but I want him to learn social interaction.