Supposeed Friends | ADHD Information

If you want to be friends with your neighbors maybe you should sit down
and explain to them what ahdh incurrs and that your 6 year old is not like
other 6 year olds. I have told my family and friends my 4 year old is adhd
and they seem to understand. If they didn't, they could just stay home.   
Do what is best for you and your family.

i think its rude that she went to your husband and said she needed a break from your kids. why didnt she tell u that? i wouldnt talk to her anymore just for that. i wouldnt want to be friends with anyone like her. what does your husband say about it all? i would let the kids play at your house but i wouldnt want them over there house if they are going to be talking like that in front of them, esp towards something your son forgot. and i agree about letting a 6yr old handle soemthing soooo important to them. and also if its that important they shouldve came and got it that night. i have some stupid neighbors and i thought it would be akward to see them outside and not be speaking to them anymore but u know what i dont even care. its too bad they are acting immature. i think that u just dont tell someone that u dont want to be around their kids even if its the truth. that hurts people. good luck to u. i think i might say something to the mom about what she told your husband but i woulndt expect it to change the way she feels. i would just want her to know that i knew what she said. try not to let it bother u. she is def not a real friend and u dont need her.

kim

Sounds like you need new neighbors. But really, I don't have any experience
with this, just do what is best for your family and don't worry about what
they are up to. Just laugh it off for now and let it go. There is nothing worse
than having problems with a neighbor, especially with kids. You never know
what is going on over at their house.   They may be dealing with a lot of
stress or different issues that may be causing them to act ugly. Hang in
there.

 I'm better off keeping to myself in my nieghborhood I dont need so called friends it's not worth if if you don't want to hang out with me don't use my kids as an excuse.

I try not to be friends with Nieghbors but since we live so close it's just to hard not to. My husband and I got into a heated discussion last week and my Nieghbors window was open she heard the whole thing and told the supposed friend that doesn't want to be around my children. the whole thing.  I appreciate your guys advice. I know it shouldn't bother me It wouldn't bother me so much if it was just me but it's my kids and There Good kids they just have issues and they are being kids There Extreme kids :-D

 

I'm wondering if any of you are in the same situration as I am...

I know this shouldn't bother me but It does Just cause it involves my kids.

My Supposeed friend told me that after my husband Got home from being gone for 6 months that She's staying away so we can get adjusted to him being home.  Well last night She told my husband that she's staying away because of my kids that they are to round up and she needs her free time away from her daughter well my daughter came home and said that my supposed friend is next door with our nieghbor and her daughter was with her. well 3 nights ago my husband and her husband went fishing with my kids and Her husband accused my 6 year old of leaving his Fish net and this pissed him off so bad that when he got to his front door he Screamed the F word Now if it was so important to him why did he leave something like that for a 6 year old to be responsible for in the pitch dark Well I drove all the way back to the pond and picked it up with out him knowing and then I called and told his Wife That I have it and she didn't come over to pick it. up. If they don't like my kids they don't have to be friends with me.  They should understand they both have ADHD too.