I would try another med, unless you think an increase would do the trick.
Call the doctor and tell them what is happening.
I would try concerta since it is in the ritalin family. He may need a higher dose. When my son was 7 he leveled off at 72mgs for over 3 years. Then when he was 10, we went to 90, where he currently is.
Remember the reason we have the meds is to make our children successful during the day. If it isn't working then we have to fix it - aka - either up the dose or change meds. there is one out there for her, it just takes some time to get there!
We also use guanfacine, it helps with anxiety, overstimulation, impulsiveness, and I think any rebound.
It took us a good 6 months to find the right med, then the right dose, but it was worth it!! 
Post any questions so that we may be of help. 
how is your son on weekends when your husband is around?
There is definetely something out there to help your son be successful. I bet the insurance covers BOTH adderall xr & concerta.
Our son is 11 1/2 now, BUT, in the morning when the meds haven't kicked in, he is silly, goofy, immature, ridiculous, etc. Then once the meds take affect, my son appears. His adhd gets in the way of showing his real self.
He is mature, responsible, polite, compassionate, sensitive, etc. Don't get me wrong, he is all these things all the time, but that darn ADHD gets in the way and makes him impulsive, hyper, etc. so he doesn't show his real self until his meds kick in.
Hang in there and keep doing what you are doing!!
We have only been on the lower dose of Vyvanse a short time. My husband has been working the past couple of weekends and not seen our son during the day. That is why it is so frustrating. It is difficult to describe to him. When you describe your son in the morning that is exactly what is going on here! He will be seven next month and cannot even get dressed himself in the morning or it wouldn't happen at all! We are going to ask the doctor about an alternative med. Thanks!have you ever just put out his clothes and had him dress himself? that is what i STILL do! i help with socks sometimes, and used to tie shoes up until a year ago. my son has sensory integration so proprioceptive was and has been an issue. he now ties laces, but not tight and does everything else. i do pick out the clothes still.
try putting the clothes out and see what happens!! 
maybe try putting some on and having him put some on!
My DS now 10, has tried both FocalinXR and Vyvanse with no luck from either. Tomorrow he dtarts Concerta 18 mg. I would like to have the tenex with it for rebound and mornings but our doc is very conservative and does not want to try that yet.I am hoping that works soon.Hello,LOL about the difficulties getting these kids to dress. My child can't get dressed in the morning until his ADHD meds kick in. We've actually backed up by 15 minutes when he takes them b/c it had been too stressful trying to get out the door on time. W/ taking his meds 15 minutes earlier, we're no longer having any problems w/ being ready on time!
Back to the OP's post. Re your meds situation, I would definitely see which methylphenidate meds are covered by your insurance. Vyvanse is an amphetamine, but Focalin is a methylphenidate drug. Be warned that, even within the same drug family, a person can have different reactions. My child was too flat on both Focalin XR and Concerta, but he's doing great on Metadate CD. They're all methylphenidate drugs.
I think a uniform would have been hard at that age for my son as well.
He started getting better about dressing himself probably around 9-10. He started wanting his privacy, which makes sense. Your's will too. He is still young.
I helped my daughter get dressed for school until the start of this school year. She is now in 6th grade (12 next month) and is finally getting herself ready on her own. Some of it is she has matured and some of it is privacy. The other really big thing for her is actually sleeping in her OWN room as long as she has the dog in her room or I am also upstairs in my room.Makes sense!! Good for your daughter. Maturity I think has so much to do with it for my son as well!!
Gosh we have tried so many meds, it really is a case by case thing. Ashley is on 30 mg Vyvanse and .50 mg of Riperdal (an anti-psychotic med) per day. But we have tried others including Adderall, Straterra, Clonodine, Tenex, Daytrana etc. Its not only a matter of finding the right pill but then the right dosage, as they could be on a pill but the totally wrong dosage for it, kwim? Its so frustrating. I do hope you find something soon, I know most of us can relate to the "meds game" for our kids- its no fun for anyone involved. Best of luck to you!
Yes, let us know how you all do.
We see a pschopharmocologist and pay out of pocket. We just do it because these meds can be so tricky and there are so many things that people can do but not all doctors know.
He is a specialist in the field and really knows his stuff. Our pediatrician referred us and told us that he was only there to help our children when they are sick, or in pain, need help with broken bones, and physicals, etc., but they are NOT ADHD specialists, and it is true!!
Best wishes!!
We saw the developmental behavioral pediatrician today. We all agreed that our son should stay on the Vyvanse for now. He seems to be adjusting well and his teacher says he is doing fine. If we feel that 20 is not enough but 30 mg is too much we have the option of adding 2-5 mg. by dissolving a 30 mg tablet in 30 mls of water and giving 2-5 mls of that via a dropper. I am not planning on that unless absolutely necessary. We will see how it goes..... Good to see some improvement...
Good to hear the report. Please let us know if you need us, we are always here!!