Help for teenage son w/ ADHD | ADHD Information

Hi, I am at the end of my rope with my son, who is 13.  He was DX'd at 5 or 6, ADHD & ODD, has been on meds since.  He's currently on Concerta 54 and abilify.  His overall behavior isn't too bad for a teenage boy, however he's starting to get bad grades, and I've noticed girls names, etc.  I have done everything to try to encourage him.  I've been very fair.  I'm to the point that I want to send him to an all boys school, or a stricter school because as most of you know, it's hard to get support on the 504 plan.  Does anyone know of somewhere to turn or contact?  I know there are special ed schools, but not sure how to go about getting info.  My husband works two jobs and I work full time, so I don't have alot of time to search.  I live in Calif.  Any advise would be appreciated! 

I bet he is going through puberty, probably for some time now. His meds may not be working. I was told that once they all hit puberty that the meds may stop working and we have to start the med trial and error stuff again.

I am glad to read that the behavior is still good, just those darn grades.

I would call the doctor and discuss his meds, he may just need an increase in his dose of concerta.

My son is 11 and is on 90mgs of concerta. He was at 72mgs until he turned 10.

Start with the meds first, that may be the answer to all!!  

Still having a teenager, I would continue to keep an eye on him as well, I plan to!!

Yes, he most definitely is going thru puberty! I didn't realize that.  I did call the doctor today and made him an appt, so it looks like we may be headed in the right direction.  Thanks for the info!! 

Let us know how things are going. I hope the mystery has been solved!!

Regards!

I would also contact the school, whoever is in charge of his 504 to discuss your concern about his grades. Try to find out what is causing the lower grades and what can be done to solve the problem. Talk to your son too. Sometimes there can be a simple solution. Maybe he's just forgetting to turn in homework and needs reminders or something like that. I understand it's hard with you and your husband's work schedules, but some teachers are great at communicating via email which is quick and easy. They may be able to let you know if your son is falling behind or having trouble in class or forgetting to turn things in.
Also, I believe it's normal and natural for kids to develop an interest in the opposite gender at some point. I would just try to keep the lines of communication open, set boundaries, and guide him through it.
Good luck!