Well after all this stress, yesterday we had a quick meeting with the teacher who said DS is doing great and even helps other kids in gifted math. She also said he is getting the citizenship award.
How nice for him!
He also won 1st place den and pack for WeblosII. I think the concerta has made a huge difference in his being happier and healthier. He also gained 5 lbs YEAH!
I still struggle with the day to day goings on around here but when I see and hear things like that I suppose it makes it all worth it.
What wonderful news!!!!!! I'm so happy for you and him that it's working out so well.
My DS has trouble in writing as well and cannot write a 5th grade level paper if it kills him. for some reason he is gifted in other areas.What are concept maps?
You have said it Luvmykids02. thank for the support. No this is not the magic cure but helps things so much. He is able to be better at school and at home we still stuggle. But in the end it is worth it(as of now).
How great. I want to see my dd get over the hump she has before her also. 
The goal is to have more good days than not so good days. The medication allows the child to make a choice and on effective medication, its like they are seeing the world clearly for the first time. Medication is not a behavior pill and like any other child, when they feel stressed they will act out or vent where it is safe to do so which would be home. If we keep our expectations reasonable, we start to see a child who no longer stuggles so badly and for the struggles they still do have, the impact it has on them emotionally as well as the entire family unit is normal just like any other child. I'm so happy for your ds and you too mom. Your doing a great job
Wow. My son was diagnosed with ADHD a little over a year ago, and he is great at math, and also reading. Writing and other subjects not so great! Good to hear that is common with ADHD!