I am in the same boat as you. My son was perscribed Strattera about a month ago and I his perscription filled then waited 4 days until I got my nerve up. My son's problems were only Focus issues at school and staying on task, but he's had A & B's throughout his school years but this year the teacher are trying to get them ready for middle school so when she asks for homework, it must be turned in immediatly and so far this year he's not turned it in on time about 30 times(which is a lot) and if was getting 10pts off for not putting his name on it. Now he 99% of the time puts his name on it. His perscription runs out sat and I am trying to decide if I should refill it. His teachers said he's staying on task more often and staying in his seat more, but in my mind, Is that really worth medicine? I just dont know. I guess I am not much help to you , I just wanted to let you know that your not the only one and that your not alone. My son has become more emotional at home(not school) and that really bothers me. Its hard, very hard and stressful knowing what the right thing to do is. It would be so easy(easier) if there was an xray or blood test that they could take to see if they "really, really" needed medication. Again, sorry I am not more help!
If your child was diabetic would you deny him medication because of the side effects? If your child had another serious health issue, would you deny him medication because of possible side effects? It's possible that diet & other natural methods will work for your child, you won't know until you try them but some cases of ADHD are severe enough that medication is neccessary to function "normally". There are going to be side effects for any medication, but if the benefits outweigh the "possible" side effects and help your child to be successful & have less troubles in school & with peers, I say it's worth it. I can see being a nurse would open your eyes to more than the average person would see and that would make the decision tough. My husband really struggled with the decision to medicate also, he didn't want to have a "zombie" for a child and didn't want to admit that something was wrong w/him. After his first 3 mos in Pre-K (he's in 1st grade now) he came to the realization that none of this was about him, it was about our son & what could make him successful in life. He also realized that it wasn't a "zombie" that we would have, we would have a child able to focus & be more "normal". Our DS is a totally different child when he's fully medicated...he is a successful kid. I'd say if you're not comfortable with medication & want to try more natural methods, definately explore the opportunities out there, maybe they will work for your child. If they don't, remember that medication is there to HELP them succeed. Good luck with your journey.Hi,
Medication is the only thing that ever made a difference with him. All I have to do is see how much happier he is on the medication and all worries about the side effects go away. They are a small price to pay for him having a happy "normal" childhood!