Hi everyone:
My son's counselor at school insisted my son didn't have adhd even though I know he does and a psychiatrist diagnosed him. She insists and argues with me every meeting that he is bi-polar, depressed and has a social anxiety disorder. I finally told her she was over stepping her bounds and that I didn't want her to work with my son anymore. The next time she saw him she wrote him up and he got suspended for a week. Now he's suspended again for swearing under his breath and their trying to expel him permanently. He's not allowed on school property even for basketball games. We finally got a lawyer and we're going to hearing because they wouldn't qualify him for spec. ed because he was to smart even though he's failing and out of school half the time with suspentions for doing typical adhd stuff and other stuff that kids say he does without proof of anyone seeing him do it or the teacher not knowing about it and it's happening right in class. I don't know what to do. My poor kid hates school and doesn't want to go back and I don't blame him. they're trying real hard to get rid of him without taking responsiblily for his education. He's on a 504 plan and that just isn't enough protection. He hasn't hurt anyone it's all related to attitude, fidgety stuff, swearing. Stuff like that. Don't get me wrong I hold him responsible for his actions but to expell permanently and not qualify him for spec. ed is just to much for me. does anyone have any advice? I HATE SCHOOL
Thanks, because I could use some.