Why do you think she needs a boarding school? Do you have any alternative education programs in your area? Charter schools? I would recommend you stay away from home school so you don't have to be the heavy all the time. What about day treatment schools for difficult children? I just hate to think of you sending away your daughter unless you have no alternatives.
Sally
My 16 yearold daughter, has ADD and BPD they think. We have been working with her she need to be in a structed group to help her program her behavor.