I've been looking around and I've found that there are people and services to do things that I hate to do, and most of it is either free or reasonable.
Cleaning people and professional organizers (both about /hour), supermarkets that deliver groceries (), on-line bill pay (free), financial advisors (1%), coaches (?) and goal setting groups (free) - I'm presently single and there are even these professional organizations that set up speed dating events ().
Before I quit working full-time, I had a cleaning lady. It was stressful to me that I had to pick up and make sure everything was "okay" for her to come in the next day. Weird, right?
The speed dating gave me a chuckle.....I wonder if they would go out on the first date to screen them as well. 
Is the Avatar a pic of your son? Sweet!
GypsyWomyn:
I KNEW I wasn't the only one who cleaned before the cleaning lady!! And yep, that's my son
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