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[quote=Andy1100]Also never seem to be able to get out of my mouth what seemed so witty in my head.... Almost stutter sometimes.[/quote]

Must say that's one of the worst problems I have...when talking 'in person.' Not just the witty stuff, just about everyting doesn't make it from brain to mouth quite right. uh...There's an entire ...um...what's that word I'm looking for? Oh yeah, topic/thread ....on this alone, if you can find it.

Thanks to all.

I'm thinking about looking up a psychiatrist, to assist me further, my doctor's a good guy, but doesn't have time to address my problem directly.  Just basically "try this and let me know" kinda thing.

Attracted to risk and high stimulation, that's us.  I draw the line at a plastic projectile though , I'll stick with my 1500 Vulcan.

Hey Mark, always good to meet another rider.  I ride a CBR1100xx.  I'm not a squid, I ride resposibly and encourage others to do so also.  I prefer to ride something technically precise, and I want the best, most advanced technology available to me.  Every little bit helps when having to deal with the BDC's.  (Brain dead cagers)

And that is flirt with the opposite sex.....  I do ride responsibly, there is a time and place for everything, so I only open it up when I know it's safe.

I haven't discussed the possibility of depression.  I feel Im a pretty easy going guy, but I don't rule out the possibility.  I do have some social anxiety, but I've always chalked it up to the ADD.  Can never think of stimulating conversation, so I never have anything to talk to people about.  Also never seem to be able to get out of my mouth what seemed so witty in my head....  Almost stutter sometimes.

Thanks again all.

Exactly.

Have all kinds of things whirling around in the brain, but the mouth just can't keep up.  I'll see if I can find that thread.. Thanks.

Welcome to the Board, Andy!

You say you have the non-hyper ADD, but like to drive over 100 mph? That's interesting.    Hmmm...flirt with the opposite sex, or flirt with danger?   

Has your doctor ever treated you for depression, which is very common in AD(H)Ders not being treated or on meds, due to trying to cope. Depression could be contributing to your lack of motivation at work. I found my depression, due to living undiagnosed most of my life, and ADHD symptoms got worse as I got older.

You said the Adderall made you like a 'zombie.' You may have been started on too high a dosage. Sorry your doctor didn't suggest trying it at a lower dosage. Plus some meds need a few weeks for you to acclimate to.

I'd talk again with your doctor, talk to him about antidepressants and perhaps a lower dosage of Adderall.

Good luck, Andy!

Welcome Andy!  I think you'll enjoy this board if you keep coming around.  I learned so much from these people.  I always figured I had ADD, but it got to be pretty unmanagable the last 7 years or so (I'm 43).  When I went to a new Dr. recently (for my sleep disorder), I filled out a long questionaire, and was asked a bunch of questions and diagnosed with ADD.  I was given Adderall (generic) and could immediately tell a difference.  I had such a clarity in my mind, and was SOOOO much more productive!

I know a lot of people's reaction to being dianosed is depression and embarrassment, but for me, I was thrilled, and have told anyone that will listen to me about my ADD, and my newfound cure.  It was just an overwhelming joy in my mind because all these little "weirdnesses" of mine finally made sense.  It's nice for me to share this with all the people who have put up with my lateness, forgetfulness, innattentiveness, because they can finally understand me, and hopefully have some compassion knowing these were truly things out of my control.

It sounds like you are taking the right steps.  There are other meds out there that might work well for you, so keep on trying.  I have heard of the book you ordered, but haven't read it.  It's supposed to be a good one though! Good Luck to you.

Hello eveyone, I'm new here and am trying to get some recommendations if possible.  I'm 31, and was diagnosed with ADD at around 13.  My brother has had adhd severely since he was a kid.  I don't have the hyperactivity.  I was on Tofranil as a kid and it seemed to work pretty well, but as I got a little older and out of the house, I stopped taking it.  Over the past few months I mentioned the to my doctor and that I was having problems at work.  I tried the strattera, which seemed like it was helping a little, but caused sexual side effects that I wasn't willing to deal with.  Then tried Adderal, took it for about a week and it turned me into a zombie, which I didn't like at all, and was inadvertantly rude to my wife constantly, so I stopped taking that as well.  That was a couple months ago, and my work is steadily decreasing.  I'm a smart guy, the work is easy for me.  I just can't get myself to do it.  I'm a quality analyist for a gov't contractor, as well as ISO quality managment coordinator, and health and safety officer.  I have piles of work to do, and more that my boss wants me to take on.  I've been counselled once for not completing work.  I'd rather not have to do that again.  My wife doesn't know how my work life is.  I guess she just thinks that I'm just like everyone else and do my work.  I just can't seem to sit down and f#$!ing do it though.(pardon)  I'm coming to a point in my life where I need to do something.  I'm afraid that I could lose my job, and I'm monetarily doing very well.  Just built a new house, have a new car.  Life is good.  Right?  I ordered "Delivered from Distraction" on Amazon yesterday, maybe that will give some insight.  I'm kind of embarrassed that my wife will see it.  She knows that I have ADD, and is supportive, just doesn't know much about it.  I'm quite creative, artistic, musician, etc..  Most of the time it just feels like there is a wall inside my forehead, that won't let the thoughts come through.  I know they're there, lots of them, crystal clear, it's like my brain is working perfectly, I just can't get through that wall to use it.  Oh well.  Thanks for listening. 

I did read something intersting (more symptoms of ADD)

People with ADD are more apt to drive over 100mph, at that speed we can actually think clearly.  True for me, I ride a sport bike, and everything becomes clearer over 100..

People with ADD flirt more than non ADDer's.  True there also....

 

[QUOTE=Andy1100]

People with ADD are more apt to drive over 100mph, at that speed we can actually think clearly.  True for me, I ride a sport bike, and everything becomes clearer over 100..[/QUOTE]

Attracted to risk and high stimulation, that's us.  I draw the line at a plastic projectile though , I'll stick with my 1500 Vulcan.

[QUOTE] People with ADD flirt more than non ADDer's.  True there also....

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Yeah, but these days I just get called a dirty old man.

Anyhow, nice to meet you Andy, and welcome to this forum for.. erm.

Where was I?  Oh, yes - welcome to this forum for the scatterbrained.