Sleepless,
Unfortunately I don't have any help for you and your son, but I will pray for you. I hope someone here on the board has a positive experience they can share with you that might help.
One thing that I have noticed with my son is that since he has started meds, he has to re-learn all the things that we take for granted everyday. He notices now that he is different from other kids in his thoughts and behavior. His teacher told me that he has become some what of a tattle tale because he notices things like kids cutting infront of him in line and he can hear snickers when he does something that is not in the ordinary.
If you have the time, have a look at some of these websites, they might benifit your son!
http://www.sensoryint.com/faq.html
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/ChildBehavior/messages/31843a. html
http://www.si-challenge.org/faqs.php
http://www.incrediblehorizons.com/sensory-integration.htm
Cindy38138.8541666667My son is ADHD and is 9 He has a hard time going to sleep every night. The only thing we have done is let him lay there he cant get up and with in an hr or so he will go to sleep. try putting something that glows on the walls something he can look at so his eyes will get sleepy good luck hope this works