Whinning!!!!!!!!!

I am glad I am not alone and yes she does sound like we are beating  her.  We have a luney neighbor who loves reporting people so I befriended her and shared with her about my daughter and her ADHD so she does not report us and shared about her tantrums too.  She was actually understanding.

   Thank you all

My  oldest  son is 12  and   he  is always  to tired  to clean  his  room or take  the trash out or help  his  brother and  sister  put their  clothes  up..... But ohhh boy when it is  time  to  go outside and   play with his  friends or  go  to  walmart he  perks  right  up... My 5 yr old  has adhd and  my oldest has  made the  comment ..I wish  I had the  energy he  has.. and   he  looks at  me  funny  when  i say no not  all of  his  energy  just a  drop of  it..... My momma  has  always said  it is  payback from  when i was a  kid...... Why am I getting  paid back 3 times..  I wasnt  that bad.....I dont  think..

My daughter is the queen of it and is driving me nuts.  Nighttimes like now is h-ll she is in her room screaming and tantruming, and yes whinning and I am taking a time out thinking I want to spank her so i am taking a time out.  I love her dearly but the behaviors are killing me.

    She is on a wait list for a psychologist so maybe by July.  Also to add she injured her leg and right hip how we do not know.  She is in pain and limping and now more whinny and I am alone to deal with it all.  All I can say is she climbs on everything.  Frustrated

redhead wrote:
 love it and when she hit puberty she's going to boarding school in Europe. hahahaha!!!!

LOL Readhead.....Even though my daughter is not ADHD, when she hit puberty, between my son being hyperactive and my daughters whining I'm the one that wanted to run away from home Jilettte.....any time you need to vent know that you are not alone becasue there will always be someone here that wants to listen. We understand. Here's a hug

Shadawbi wrote:
Another thing I hate is the "I'm too tired" or "I just sat down" any time I ask her to do something! I work, clean the house, run everyone everywhere & SHE'S too tired???  

OMG........your daughter and my daughter must be related Too funny

My  oldest  son is 12  and   he  is always  to tired  to clean  his  room or take  the trash out or help  his  brother and  sister  put their  clothes  up..... But ohhh boy when it is  time  to  go outside and   play with his  friends or  go  to  walmart he  perks  right  up... My 5 yr old  has adhd and  my oldest has  made the  comment ..I wish  I had the  energy he  has.. and   he  looks at  me  funny  when  i say no not  all of  his  energy  just a  drop of  it..... My momma  has  always said  it is  payback from  when i was a  kid...... Why am I getting  paid back 3 times..  I wasn't  that bad.....I don't  think..

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OMG  That's just what I told my mother.  I really didn't think I was that bad, but I guess so.  I got the curse "when you have your kids, i hope they are just like you were."  So, I had my son, well, that was it.  NO more for me.  lol

  lol... She started saying  I hope you have 1 like  you and  then all of  sudden there was  2 more...I tell my oldest I hope  he has  2 like  him...  When i mention she was only  suppose to jinx  me  with 1 she laughs  and  says  PAYBACK...  When I call her to vent  about the  kids  she  sings welcome  to my  world..  

Thanks.  What I did find lately if I give her permission to play in her bed she tends to fall asleep sooner.  Annette goes through stages she will be good for awhile then revert back.

     Now we are going through the good days and bad days where the tantrums and crankiness go on and lasts most of the day.  Soon we will see a psychologist when her number on the wait list comes up, thanks to the quack she almost saw.  Thanks all