Getting blamed | ADHD Information

Do any of you get blamed for .. . . .well EVERYTHING? I mean to the point where someone else does something, it messes up and when you had nothing to do with ANYTHING, somehow someone manages to say it's your fault?

It's become somewhat of a comedy in my life but way too often I take the blame for things I had nothing to do with..

Namely because if I explain what really happened people think I'm making excuses...
arbiterxero38477.3332407407Well, my Husband is so used to me breaking stuff and being messy that when something breaks, he assumes I did it. Other than that, I don't feel I am blamed for other things.Oh, yeah! I've been a scapegoat my entire life. Why? I don't know!    But once you're 'marked' as one...that's it...forever. And if I explain what really happened, or that I had nothing to do with whatever....I'm accused of lying...something I NEVER do.OH MAN! Nothing gets me more peeved then getting blamed for someone else's crap!
I have had a few projects where i got in trouble because they couldn't find me. Nevermind the fact that I sent out 4 emails reminding everyone on my team that I was out...the one person didn't check and then said I was missing and she was upset. She didn't bother to check her email OR ask anyone else if I was out. Man, that really urks me.