My friend has been married for several years and is initiating a well-justified divorce. However, after hearing many, many, many stories, I am very suspicious that her husband is ADHD. I think it would be tragic if their marriage ended without exploring this potential factor in their marital problems. Without biasing your responses with details about her own situation, I am asking for your stories about marriage divorce, diagnosis and treatment. How were you before and after your diagnosis and treament? How did you manage before diagnosis? How did you treat your spouse/partner?